Why Does He Treat Me This Way

don’t let him get away with making you feel like this … tell him how you feel and if he still acts the same get rid of him!!! you deserve better

You are 14 honey! still so so young. You will meet plenty of boys but you will only have a few best friends. Good luck x

Gurl u best ditch dat boiw u lyke cuz he is a total jek i mean how can he do dat ugh!! datz so not cool if u realy lyke diiz guy dem tell him how u feel n da truth den if he contnues to blank u wen ur best m8te is dere den i say dump him fast!! lol

You deserve better! tell him, that ent no way to treat a girl.
Bro’s before ho’s! stik wiv yuur mate. But i think she may be leading him on slightly if he is still carryin on. Finish him. You may love him but you wud be better of without him.
WishYouTheBest, X

I had a boyfriend like this. I am 15 now and well clear of him now. But I was 12 when we first started our.. thing. Whenever my or his friends were around he would push me about and just not be very “boyfriendy”. But when we were together it was like.. amazing. Right sound familiar?
A guy like that really isn’t worth your time honey. As for the best friend. Have a serious word with her. Is she in on this. As in is she like flirting with him too? Does she know that your boyfriend is different with you when she’s there? If she knows all of this, she doesn’t seem very much like a best friend.
Just think about it hun
Hope you make right choices x

If i was you if your going out with him you blatently love him with all your heart i would tell your best mate to not come out with you and your boyfriend i know you may fall out but if you say it nicley she proberly wont mind if she doesnt have a boyfriend herself then that could be why she wants to hang around with you and you boyfriend but talk to your boyfriend aswell and say what you feel to him and if he does love you the way you love him then he will hopefully understand and agree with you

You two should talk about your relationship and how you feel, if he truly loved you, he would understand and try to fix things so you can be happy together. If this doesn’t work, I don’t think the relationship is worthwhile, there’s plently more boys and you are still young. You should also talk to your friend as she has a lot to do with it, she might not be worthwhile as a friend either. Good luck x

Well for a start he is obviously stupid as he is trying to change to impress your ‘friend’ and get her to like him. If you love him how he is when it is just you two, give him a chance and tell him to be like that all the time and if he doesn’t , ditch him because he aint worth it. And your so called friend, if she really was your friend, she would tell him that there will never be nothing between them as he is with you so maybe have a word with her about it to.

i say leave him honey. you deserve way better than that and theres plenty more boys who will treat you loads better. he doesnt sound like a verry nice guy x x

Honey, I think your best friend probably is leading him on a wee bit if she’s still letting him get away with acting like that to you when he’s round her after you’ve already left him once for saying he want’s her not you; And think about that for a little bit aswell-he’s openly said he want’s her not you, you dumped him, took him back again and he’s still acting the exact same way; I know it hurts to think it but it’s obviously her and not you that he actually wants-I think he might either be a but shy about saying or is worried about asking her out because she’s your friend and he thinks he might get rejected.
Sit the two of them down-either separately or together, whichever way you feel happier-get it all out in the open and just tell them how you feel about this, if it carries on the way it is at the moment then i think you should dump BOTH of them! I know it might hurt, but trust me, your still so young-friends come and go aswell as b/f’s not so often maybe, but the do! It might hurt awhile but your to young to be worrying about things like this and having the people who should make you happy be bringing you down…Xx

Hey sweety..
Actually..Some1 near 2 me went thru dis..
and i can exactly tel u wat 2 do with it..
first, u have to choose who is much more important to u..
ur bff or ur bf? yeah..also consider ur bestie’s feelings for ur bf? is she loyal to u or not? if not..u should dump both of them…and leave both for themselves..I knw it’s gonna be so hard but its for ur own better tym…rite?
and if she is loyal to u..den tel her abt how u fell about it..XPRESS it so well dat she’ll be completely by your side..
Or else..tlk to ur bf abt it..or..do something similar he does wid u to his close friends..hang out more with HIS guy frnds to make him understand how u feel..

right first of all tell yr jackass of a boyfriend to choose u or her bcos yr sick of him blankin u if he chooses her but yr bezzie doesnt even consider to ask u about this then shes not a friend if u r upset if he chooses her try 2 keep it cool while yr with him then when u go home have a good cry

tbf he ent worth you, if he’s gona be like that around your best friend, then he is just a nob, get rid off him is your best bet, and for your best friend, tell her what he’s done and see if shes in with it aswell. ino you love him but obvsley he loves your best friend, its happened to me and i finished him, then they was going out..
but if urr bestfriend is a true best friend then she wont go out with him, but mine wasnt.

hope you do the best thing:)

he is obviously a player.

I was in the same predicament a while back, I dumped him and never felt better. I’m not going to say you do the same. It’s your choice but maybe if you dont want to do that again, try talking to your friend. She how she feels about it and/or if she has noticed his behaviour.

x

All young people do silly things. You cant put an old head on young shoulders. Having said that, older people can grow to be a bit mental and become nastier. You cant really win, being younger or older, Im afraid.

I was in the same position when I was your age. Get rid of him, he’s a loser. Let him be all alone and then see how he likes it, since your best friend clearly isn’t interested in him. Go find someone better who treats you like you deserve to be treated xx

It sounds to me, like a case of ‘one or the other’.. depending on how you go about this. It seems like you do honestly care for your best friend, it’s not her who’s making you uncomfortable- it’s him looking at her. So your best friend really hasn’t done anything wrong. If I was in your shoes I would casually bring up (to your boyfriend) the situation and how it’s making you feel. Say that you don’t mean harm but it is making you wary and you don’t want to have to choose between the two. Because you REALLY don’t have to do that, whatever happens. Make it clear who you’re sticking with but do not let a guy get in the way of your friendship. It’s him who’s in the wrong, don’t blame yourself. I hope I’ve helped. ^sorry about the rant. good luck. xx

My from teenager to another, it really depends on how much you like him and how much you value your friendship with the girl. Talk to him about it and say you feel uncomfortable with what he is doing and if possible could he please stop it. Everyone says your only 14 you have plently of time but i know it hurts. Let your heart decide and do what you think is best. Good Luck.

sit down and talk with your best friend and let her know how you feel, and then give your boyfriend the choice of you or your mate. you will then know whether he is worth it or not.

There is only one word for this boy.. player. He may be with you, but how do you know when he isn’t that he isn’t with her? Coming in between friends is a bad thing, especially after what he said to her. He’s trying to play you off against eachother. He obviously wants you to argue and fight over him, and he’ll be loving it. Please get out now, things like this never work out. He obviously has a thing for your friend, but just remember you deserve so much better than him. I know you may feel you have to stay with him in a way, or else your friend will get him. But even if that happens then they are both not worth having a place in your life. hold you head up high and remember you are worth so much more.

You are not alone out there loads of girls your age will go throw something like this at some point!! You got to know who your mates are and who you can trust and take it further. As my mum would there are plenty of fish in the pond but i know what you are thinking when you hear that oh well its not happening tto you. You dont know how can you comment but seriously your only 14 you have time to get a booy

My dear just kick him in the butt and move on.
You deserve better.
NEVER GO BACK TO A MAN OR HE~LL TREAT YOU EVEN WORSE

it sounds too me like you have a problem.. i would play the player at his own game and see how he likes it, he should’nt be treating you in this sort of way.. and neither should your friend, she should realoise how much you love him and that she’s ruining your relationship by leading him on, good luck
p.s- blank him and show him your upset, and not intrested and he’ll realise how much you mean to him, i promise, and have a talk with your friend, sortt things out, friends before lads, and just have fun and forget him…………… <3

Simple, he fancies your friend too. Dump him and find a boy who fancies only you!

That sucks.. He seems like a bit of a player to me. I think you should dump him, no boy should treat their girl like second best, and your best friend shouldn’t have a go at you if you talk to your boyfriend about him being flirty with her. She should understand if she really is your best friend. “Hoes before bros” and all that..x

Talk to him about it, say how you feel! And than you will see further

Ditch the guy and ditch your friend. If she is really a friend to you, she would have long given him the dirty, scare him off and tell you he’s a jerk. If you dun feel good in a relationship, it is not a good relationship to have.