We live 150 miles apart
I’ve been speaking to a girl online for nearly a year now and we’ve become good friends, but haven’t met up yet, due to being nearly 150 miles apart. However, we have exchanged mobile and email addresses together.
I really like this girl, but initially, when I asked if she wanted to meet up, she said yes and we sorted out a day and time. But at the eleventh hour she had to cancel because of work.
We’ve both agreed to try and meet up again some time and kept talking, but I’ve asked her twice in three months if she wants to meet up again, she doesn’t reply with an answer or reason and will continue talking to me a week later.
The other thing is, she has shown signs that she likes me, but it sounds like she’s really hesitant seeing if this friendship would progress and see me face to face for what I really am.
My question is, what should I do, back off and stay friends, try to meet up with her again later or hint at my feelings for her?
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She may or may not be playing games with you. But she ought to have the decency to tell you frankly whether she wants to meet up or not.
Of course, it may be possible that she has some fears about meeting someone she doesn’t know off the internet.
Therefore, be honest and direct one last time. Tell her that you really want to meet her and need an answer soon one way or the other. What does she need to know you’re on the up and up? Would she be more comfy if she knew your address, home number, or spoke to your mom or any of your family? Would she feel better if she waited another week or so and then met you in public place during the day after giving her family the details of where you are to meet? Or would she like to have a friend with her when she first meets you so as to feel more safe? Assure her you’ll meet on her terms& put her fears to rest.
Ask her and see. If she just won’t meet up, it’s better to forget her and find someone else to befriend- since it seems you’re looking for a long term relationship and she just isn’t. Good luck.
Don’t hint at the feelings just incase it jepardises the meet up and the friendship in general. Wait and see on that count. In regards to the meetup, keep waiting for her to be free. You sound like great friends, and sometimes life does get in the way of other commitments. She may be nervous about meeting up with someone she’s never met before, which is normal. But give her time and she’ll soon realise that you two can make your relationship as friends work in person as well as online – as millions of people do everyday. Once you know each other in person a bit better, see how your feelings progress.
well my best friend lives a 4hour drive away and we met through a friend of ours. he is like my absolute best friend and i love him to pieces and he did admit to fancying me but didn’t want to ask me out because of the distance. i personally think distance doesn’t matter as i have friends in germany and norway aswel. And i havn’t met any of them in person.
this girl should have given you a reason for not wanting to meet up, this is really unfair to you. next time you ask her if she doesn’t reply then say something like…
why do you always ignore me when i ask about meeting up?
and keep asking until she tells you if a week passes and still nothing ignore her, she isn’t worth it if she is a friend then there must be a proper reason. if she can ignore you then you can ignore her.
good luck with everything