im 22 and and currently a single parent, i haven’t had much luck in my past relationships as they have usually turned out abusive.

I split from my ex in march but i have strong feelings for him still and keep getting him back involved in my life after we go a couple of months without speaking, he tells me he wont treat me like before and i really believe him. I am confused, i love this person but i don’t know if i really do want to do get back with him, but i cant bare the fact he might move on.

Not only that i was texting one if his best friends and we almost did something we may have regretted, this person has also declared their love for me and now i feel trapped between them both and scared that if i did get back with my ex his friend might tell him or may have told someone else and this will surely take him back to his old ways and destroy his trust he thinks he has in me, although this was a serious issue within our relationship the first time around, even though there was no reason.

The whole relationship with my ex has been complicated from the start, as he has his own children from a previous relationship, this was an issue for me because i found out they had been texting each other and heard rumors that they had slept together whilst he was with me, also his family dislike for other reasons, how can i decide what to do?
ive been hurt and i dont want to get hurt again but i yet i still think about my ex and seriously considering to agree to be in a relationship with my ex, the only thing stopping me is the fling i had with his friend, and i dont want to hurt him either…please help.

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