I got engaged about 3 years ago.
We had moved in together two years ago and were happy, but circumstances regarding family issues and finances dictated that we move back in with our parents respectively. I got a job delivering Chinese food around my area, and I have been at it for nearly 2 years now. In this time I met a 17 year old girl who works on the counter with me one night per week. We have built up a close friendship through intimate conversations and a little harmless flirting.

Just recently we shared our feelings for each other and it turns out that they are mutually strong. This girl makes me happy when she phones and texts me and I would do anything to make her happy, but in recent weeks, I have tried to make a move on her and she didn’t want to know, saying “You have a girlfriend and I’m not into the whole affair thing”. She also told me that she would go with me if I were to end my existing relationship and I am now beginning to doubt my love for my fiancee.
I didn’t ask to have strong feelings for this new girl and I don’t want to see my relationship with my Fiancee end, or even suffer – as it is doing because of this. On the other hand, I don’t want to lose a close friend, no matter how much of a tease she seems to be.