Hi I’m a single mum with 3 children and have been seeing this guy for about 2mths and everything has been going well until the beginning of this week.  He has children of his own and they stay quite away from him,but the problem is his children didnt want to see him and that has been over a year now and there was nothing he could do about it but wait.

The wait paid off as they now want to see him,which is great news.  He was shocked with the out of blue text. Thing is since he got the text he has told me he wants space to clear his head as he has lots on his mind from thinking about what he’s gonna be like with and what to say to his kids as its been so long and think about things with me,whether he wants to be with me and other stuff and says he’s gonna be quiet..whats confusing is he says were still together,wants to keep in contact..

I havent heard back from him and not sure if i should just leave it for him to contact me and give him the space he needs and also how long to leave it for before i get in touch and ask him what is happening as im only human and have feelings as well and need to know where i stand..hope you can help me with my dilemma as dont want to do the wrong thing…look forward to your help,many thanks