I want to know what to do about being single. I am 26! and never had a girlfriend not through lack of trying though!

People are often surprised because they say i’m good looking but i have always had self esteem issues as a result of being bullied at school.

i have tried hypnosis cds to make me more confident and they have made only a little difference I often get the feeling I am not supposed to be with anyone. i have read many books on confidence, dating and seduction but nothing seems to work or fit.

i’m never sure if i’m trying too hard or not hard enough. i have good personal hygiene, dress well, can make most people laugh and am loyal and accepting of most people. where am i going wrong?