Hi Agony Aunt, I am 41 yrs old and single. I have been friends/lovers with a gentleman of 60 for just over a year.
However he has a complicated life, he has an ex wife whom he still I believe has a relationship with, he has 2 children with her, who are grown up now. I recently got a very well paid new job, with company car etc. I have offered to take us away for a weekend, because we havent seen each other properly since last december.

He has agreed to meet up, and seems very enthusiastic at the moment, however I was quite annoyed today, when he dropped out of the blue that he has just purchased a brand new top of the range car, but hasnt offered anything towards the weekend !
Im starting to get quite bad vibes, and am wondering if Im doing the right thing ?