Should I Contact Him?
By Agony Aunt | October 24, 2008
I was 15 when I met my ex, 16 when we split up.
I’m now 23 and I still think about him daily. I dont know what is going on with his life, I havent seen him
for about a year or more. I would like to contact him but have no address other than his mother’s, and I know he doesnt live at home anymore.
Should I contact him and tell him I still think about him and maybe still love him or should I leave him be? Maybe he still thinks about me? I was stupid to let him go and I broke his heart, I was young and didnt understand love and relationships. Now I know he was the one for me, but do I contact him and risk upsetting him or myself?
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It might be that you only think about him because he was your first love and you haven’t met anyone else since. It’s unlikely you’re meant to be together - otherwise you would have stayed together.
If you really want to meet him and find out about his life, there’s no harm. Just call his mom’s house& ask his family for his new address. But pls be prepared that he may not want to see you again- or that he may be involved with someone else.
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Look up EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) on Google. It will build your confidence so you feel ready to meet new people.