Is something going on between my mum and my godfather?
By Agony Aunt | October 22, 2008
I hope you can help me, approx one year ago I asked my godfather to move into our house permenantly to help our financial situation since then things have been going well.
The thing is, I am not sure if there is something going on between my mum and my godfather. Every now and then they act very secretive (and we have no secrets) and very weird. Yesterday when I went into my mum’s bedroom to see if she was alright her PJ’s were on the floor including her under garments and this is not the case as she went to bed in them last night as I said good night and turned her light off.
It might be me being stupid but I need some advice, and I hope you can shed some light on this. My godfather’s behaviour is very weirde sometimes he acts very flirtatious with my mum and it creeps me out…
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Your mom’s behaviour& your godfather’s does sound strange. Unfortunately, there’s nothing you can really do about it- given that she’s an adult& your mother. Unless you have a really good relationship - and even then- she’s unlikely to want advice or interference about her affair (if she’s having one).
You don’t mention whether or not your parents are married& still together. If they are & yr father lives with you, it won’t be long before your father notices their odd behaviour and then it’s up to him - not you- how to handle it. If your parents are separated, then it’s up to your mother who she wants to be romantically involved with- though I would have hoped she’d have had the dignity to behave in a more discreet& appropriate manner around her daughter.
I’m sorry to say it but there isn’t much you can- or should- do. You can politely tell your mom that you don’t feel comfy around her when your godfather flirts with her& asks her about their relationship. You have to be prepared that she might tell you to mind your own business or refuse to discuss it. In which case your only option is to wait until you can find a job and move out.
If it helps you can talk to a third neutral party you trust; a friend or aunt who might shed more insight on the situation. But honestly my best advice is to just leave things alone till you’re able to live on your own.
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