Comments on: Im 15 and im 19 weeks pregnant

By: charlie

charlie — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 21:03:24 +0000

Its stupid that lisa could say such a thing, I never trust people called lisa actually. Ask yourself, how much does this baby mean to you, would you like to see it happy with an adoptive family or happy with you? As long as you make your parents realise that its your baby and you will take full responcibility, they may calm down a bit. Think about your school options. Could you get a tutor to come to your house? Then later see if you can get night classes, that you can schedule around your baby. Also, this is emotionally harming you and you are clearly destressed. Maybe you could check out local groups that support and help young mothers or see if you can get a therapists help to help you with your worries. Also, you could try blogging. I personally recommend youtube videos, do enough and keep them interesting and be nice on camera, and people will love you and your story. the support you get back is amazing, its like you always have a shoulder to cry on. It’s helped many people through many problems, research online about being a young mother and getting help, read lots of baby books, ask other mothers for guidence. the best thing for YOU is finding support. My sister got pregnant at 15 and had an abortion, she was soon sectioned and broke down, only telling my dad then. Now her lifes back on track, but that will always stick with her, dont let it happen to you. always remember that somewhere in the world, somebody cares and wants to help you, never give up!

By: jacie

jacie — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 16:18:02 +0000

hello
Once the baby is born maybe you should talk to the fathers parents and see if they would be intrested in helping you and there newly born granchild out …..
I am only 14 my self, however i feel that if your that young then you neew someone near the same age as you for a agony aunt.
try to talk to your mum and dad sepretley about the pregnancy.
Best of Luck
take care x x

By: Zoe

Zoe — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 18:49:23 +0000

My bestfriend has just went through exactly the smae thing.She got kicked out so my mum let her stay with us for a few weeks until she got put into care. she had the baby 2 months ago but he was taken off her. she was upst but they said once she is 16 or has somewhere of her own she can have him back.

By: Beth Field

Beth Field — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 11:31:24 +0000

Kerry is absaloutly right babe. Its wrong to kill another person. Like murder. And i promise you, you will prebley regret it for a while. Imaghen when your old about 20 and your child will around 4 and you will be so sweet together. It will be a really good true bound which not many people have with their mums, i should know. So good luck. Keep in contact yeah>x

By: Beth Field

Beth Field — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 11:27:30 +0000

Look on the bright side of life not the bad. Like the song – always look on the briiight side of life! My friend was 14 when she gave birth. My sister wat 16. We were a little bit cross when she told us. But talk to your mum, lots of hugs and kisses to show her that you really are sorry! Do you want to keep it? You know you dont have to. Im 14 and i really want to be an agony aunt when im older. I want to keep in touch with you, and help you as the precess goes on. Email me. Its my msn as well. How are you feeling about things now, at the moment?

Loves x Beth x.

By: kerry

kerry — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:28:17 +0000

heya, lisa how stupid r u to give a 15 year old child advice that involves her having an abortion.hun u will be reli silly to do that and jst think 2 urself will u lyk it if u knew that ur mother even ad the taut of aborting you, hell no you woudlnt so y put the sweet innocent baby and your self through sooooooo much of pain.that little human growing inside you is innocent and doesnt deserve to be murdered so hun theres lots of ppl willing to help you eg: homes, hostels ect but as long as you and that child r alive and have each oda to b beside u. mwazzzz take care

By: mel

mel — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 22:56:17 +0000

i know how you feel i got pregnant at 16 with no fella he left when he found out i had the baby shes nearly 8 now and i know for fact everything works out in the end ive got a cosy council house and got a part time job lifes what you make it. you might be young but im sure your a bright girl.my mum was the same with me kicking me out every week its hard but as i said it will work out in the end.so sorry what happend 2 your boyfriend im sure hes family would be delighted for you 2 have hes baby.

By: Harii

Harii — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 19:26:41 +0000

Hang on a sec, how can you be pregnant if the father got ran over a few years ago?

By: Mia

Mia — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 21:33:43 +0000

I agree with Cat, I think it’s outrageous that Lisa the so called ‘agony aunt’ is giving such awful advice. Forcing her into an abortion?! That’s ridiculous.
They’re are PLENTY of single mums out there who look after thier children.

I suggest you stay in the house, be polite to your parents. Do your best at school, untill the child is born.
As soon as the baby is born get intouch with social services, they will sort you out with a house. Apply for some sort of apprenticeship where you can study and work at the same time.
Set yourself up for life, it’s the best thing you can do for yourself and your child.

Good luck

By: Harii

Harii — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 19:07:22 +0000

I totally realise how hard this is for you. If I was to become pregnant I would so want to keep it, the main reason being that I couldn’t bare to give it away! I do agree with Lisa in the sense that you and you’re baby will greatly suffer if you’re alone on the streets, but maybe you could adapt your life when you’ve been kicked out. Try and get into a Foster home or whatever they’re called, I’m sure the baby will still be allowed there. It would be quite sad too loose your Mum and Dad, siblings if you have them and friends but you need to think smartly here. The way I see it is that you have these options;
a) have an abortion and stay living with your Mum and Dad, personally I couldn’t stand to kill the baby and would hate anyone that made me, but it would also be better as your younger and such
b) put the baby up for adoption that way you can stay living with your parents and keep with your education. The bad points are that the baby might go to some one horrible and that you’ll have to give the baby away
c) keep the baby and live on the streets, which is the most ridiculous idea ever as the baby will die in like less than a month from lack of food, cold, etc.
d) try talking to a teacher or other close family member or a parent of a friend, maybe you could live with one of them or something

Well i don’t know as i’m only thirteen but i hope any of this helped, good luck! xxx