Comments on: I want to break but he crys http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/ Relationship Advice Sat, 28 Aug 2010 21:40:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Sosmelly http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-1096 Sosmelly Thu, 15 Apr 2010 19:58:06 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-1096 the simple answer is to talk about it with him, not about breaking up but about your relationship and if he can't do that then tell it to him straight and either dump him or don't because he needs to get over you and give u some space the simple answer is to talk about it with him, not about breaking up but about your relationship and if he can’t do that then tell it to him straight and either dump him or don’t because he needs to get over you and give u some space

]]> By: Emily http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-944 Emily Thu, 18 Feb 2010 21:09:52 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-944 if you are realy trully sure you want to break up with him then sit him down and say you don't want to be with him if he cries just say im sorry its not working okay just stand strong and do it of course it'll hurt him after 15 months but he'll get over it but only do it if you are absolutly sure cos the wost thing to do is break up with himand then two dys later realise you still love him and want him back if you are realy trully sure you want to break up with him then sit him down and say you don’t want to be with him if he cries just say im sorry its not working okay just stand strong and do it of course it’ll hurt him after 15 months but he’ll get over it but only do it if you are absolutly sure cos the wost thing to do is break up with himand then two dys later realise you still love him and want him back

]]> By: leigh http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-851 leigh Wed, 27 Jan 2010 01:52:12 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-851 If he's going out without you, you do it too, and tell him this. But you decide to be with him or you are not. So you tell him you've had some thoughts of staying and going, and it's only fair on you to tell you straight, this is what you are doing....Then he needs to trust you to go out and you need to understand his reaction, and reassure him. If he’s going out without you, you do it too, and tell him this. But you decide to be with him or you are not. So you tell him you’ve had some thoughts of staying and going, and it’s only fair on you to tell you straight, this is what you are doing….Then he needs to trust you to go out and you need to understand his reaction, and reassure him.

]]> By: steph http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-833 steph Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:01:46 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-833 ive been in this situation before and it isnt easy! i broke up with my ex and then ended up getting back with him out of pitty, i found that this just made it harder to leave him the second time. You cant stay with him anymore, and every day that you do its just going to get harder to leave him! your ready for the relationship to end, this meens there is no going back and your feelings arnt going to change back to the way they were, no matter how much easier that would be! you have to be firm but kind, if he wants to ring you everyday for the next 6 months after you leave him then you have to understand that it is his way of feeling close to you, slowly break contact and speek less every day until things arnt so raw and he understands you are completly over. dont lead him on it isnt fair and it makes them even more clingy! good luck, i know it isnt easy! steph x ive been in this situation before and it isnt easy! i broke up with my ex and then ended up getting back with him out of pitty, i found that this just made it harder to leave him the second time.

You cant stay with him anymore, and every day that you do its just going to get harder to leave him! your ready for the relationship to end, this meens there is no going back and your feelings arnt going to change back to the way they were, no matter how much easier that would be!

you have to be firm but kind, if he wants to ring you everyday for the next 6 months after you leave him then you have to understand that it is his way of feeling close to you, slowly break contact and speek less every day until things arnt so raw and he understands you are completly over. dont lead him on it isnt fair and it makes them even more clingy! good luck, i know it isnt easy! steph x

]]> By: Aunti Chan x http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-824 Aunti Chan x Fri, 22 Jan 2010 02:45:03 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-824 That's the problem I had. In the end, I did something that he found really annoying and then argued with him. The night before, I had packed my bags n stashed them in another wardrobe. When I made sure it was a proper heated arguement, I screamed 'IT'S OVER'. I grabbed my bags n walked out. I went to my mums n she bought me a new sim card n some credit. Every time he went to the door, I got my mum to answer it. Seconds later, he left. After a few weeks, when I knew I didn't need him, I arranged to meet him at the park. I spoke to him n then we became friends (after about 6 times meeting him). But it worked n I feel proud that I did it. I was with him for 3 n a half years n now I'm free!!! Here's ur plan: 1. Pack ur bags the night before. 2. Make sure u have somewhere to stay. 3. Buy a new sim card (u can get them £1 in the pound shop). 4. Don't meet him until u r 100% sure u don't need him. 5. Either make friends with him or ignore him all together. Good luck! x x x That’s the problem I had. In the end, I did something that he found really annoying and then argued with him. The night before, I had packed my bags n stashed them in another wardrobe. When I made sure it was a proper heated arguement, I screamed ‘IT’S OVER’. I grabbed my bags n walked out. I went to my mums n she bought me a new sim card n some credit. Every time he went to the door, I got my mum to answer it. Seconds later, he left. After a few weeks, when I knew I didn’t need him, I arranged to meet him at the park. I spoke to him n then we became friends (after about 6 times meeting him). But it worked n I feel proud that I did it. I was with him for 3 n a half years n now I’m free!!! Here’s ur plan:
1. Pack ur bags the night before.
2. Make sure u have somewhere to stay.
3. Buy a new sim card (u can get them £1 in the pound shop).
4. Don’t meet him until u r 100% sure u don’t need him.
5. Either make friends with him or ignore him all together.
Good luck! x x x

]]> By: Alexlep06480 http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-784 Alexlep06480 Tue, 12 Jan 2010 21:06:02 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-784 Hey, I understand you situation! It's difficult for he and you. He,does'nt want to break up with you,proof/evidence which he holds "at" you and your relation! It doesn't much matter,you don't have to be allowed impress or to soften by him. I think that you have to make what you want even if that"ll be hard!You must to be happy,it's the main part not? After that, you can speak with him by explaining to him clearly why you want to break up, and he has to understand it,with difficulty or not! To speak is has my opinion a first step! Your boyfriend must know that you don't belong to him! To sum up,make that you heart tells you to make :the good choice. Good luck and be strong! Alex. Hey,
I understand you situation! It’s difficult for he and you. He,does’nt want to break up with you,proof/evidence which he holds “at” you and your relation!
It doesn’t much matter,you don’t have to be allowed impress or to soften by him.
I think that you have to make what you want even if that”ll be hard!You must to be happy,it’s the main part not?
After that, you can speak with him by explaining to him clearly why you want to break up, and he has to understand it,with difficulty or not!
To speak is has my opinion a first step! Your boyfriend must know that you don’t belong to him!
To sum up,make that you heart tells you to make :the good choice.
Good luck and be strong! Alex.

]]> By: TONYYYY http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-783 TONYYYY Tue, 12 Jan 2010 21:03:19 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-783 The first thing to know, it’s that in an love affair or even, in friendship, it’s necessary that the individuals are equals towards. Your relation must be at least balanced, and it’s not your case. Indeed he allows him to make tricks without you and you, you can’t do nothing without him. If it makes you as badly as that, make something, take you in hand and explains him clearly that you can’t continue like that, that if he loves you really he must respect you and respect the principle of the equality, which is a base in a couple. We have all need to have time for oneself, to be posed, reflect or other, the life of couple isn’t forcing easy in the contrary case, so hang out with friends, the family or being alone, it’s good sometimes, without being with him. Fact him understand that and if he really does’nt make any efforts… it’s that he doesn’t deserve you. Because the love can change the people. In the contrary case, if it doesn’t change, it’s that he doesn’t love you enough to change. So next… PS: Scuse me but i’m french, so my english isn’t exact. The first thing to know, it’s that in an love affair or even, in friendship, it’s necessary that the individuals are equals towards. Your relation must be at least balanced, and it’s not your case. Indeed he allows him to make tricks without you and you, you can’t do nothing without him. If it makes you as badly as that, make something, take you in hand and explains him clearly that you can’t continue like that, that if he loves you really he must respect you and respect the principle of the equality, which is a base in a couple. We have all need to have time for oneself, to be posed, reflect or other, the life of couple isn’t forcing easy in the contrary case, so hang out with friends, the family or being alone, it’s good sometimes, without being with him. Fact him understand that and if he really does’nt make any efforts… it’s that he doesn’t deserve you. Because the love can change the people. In the contrary case, if it doesn’t change, it’s that he doesn’t love you enough to change. So next…
PS: Scuse me but i’m french, so my english isn’t exact.

]]> By: Sophie http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-768 Sophie Tue, 29 Dec 2009 00:28:30 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-768 it seems like this lad cant stand the thought of been apart from you but is maybe afraid if treating you fairly. sit down with him and tell him how you feel and listen to how he feels. if he truly liked you then he would make a change for your sake if he doesnt then its up to you whether to keep or chuck. also most lads dont know what they have til they have lost it so if he loses you then come crawling back its up to you whether you would have him back you you have given him 2 chances and if you keep letting him back in then he is gonna think he has got under his control and he can do whatever he wants to and get away with it. good luck. it seems like this lad cant stand the thought of been apart from you but is maybe afraid if treating you fairly. sit down with him and tell him how you feel and listen to how he feels. if he truly liked you then he would make a change for your sake if he doesnt then its up to you whether to keep or chuck. also most lads dont know what they have til they have lost it so if he loses you then come crawling back its up to you whether you would have him back you you have given him 2 chances and if you keep letting him back in then he is gonna think he has got under his control and he can do whatever he wants to and get away with it.

good luck.

]]> By: kira & jacie http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-762 kira & jacie Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:39:19 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-762 jacie= hii if your boyfriend keeps crying when you brake up with him but you dont i suggest you sit down with him and make sure he listens if he doesnt stop arfter that and der is no love foor him then i suggest that you tell him you cant putt up with his little snivvels no more and head for the door for a better life... Best of luck Kira is ill she can not write :( get well soon kirax x jacie=
hii if your boyfriend keeps crying when you brake up with him but you dont i suggest you sit down with him and make sure he listens if he doesnt stop arfter that and der is no love foor him then i suggest that you tell him you cant putt up with his little snivvels no more and head for the door for a better life…

Best of luck

Kira is ill she can not write :( get well soon kirax x

]]> By: Beckka http://myagonyaunt.com/i-want-to-break-but-he-crys/comment-page-1/#comment-758 Beckka Mon, 21 Dec 2009 17:45:27 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=140#comment-758 If you dont want to be with him that is your choice, u shouldnt feel liek you have to stay with him becoz he needs you. But at the same time you need to sit down and tell him how you feel and that u still want to be friends just not in a relationship. If you dont want to be with him that is your choice, u shouldnt feel liek you have to stay with him becoz he needs you. But at the same time you need to sit down and tell him how you feel and that u still want to be friends just not in a relationship.

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