Comments on: I want someone to love me for who I am

By: rach

rach — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 20:13:53 +0000

Honey,please dont be in a hurry to grow up. It feels right to you now..but if you do anything with this boy you will regret it later in life. Do you really want to live with the regret? Take things slowly. If you like this boy and he just wants to do things with you without feelings there,then that is not worth it. Trust me. Wait until you find someone who feels the same about you as you feel about them. It will all be worth it. Good luck with everything,i hope you make the correct choice xx

By: Mary

Mary — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 17:57:06 +0000

I’m sorry to start my reply like this but you are only 13->14 and you have years infront of you to be with boys enjoy the childhood you have whilst you still can.

By: Becky.

Becky. — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 23:22:04 +0000

your 13, im sorry your too young tbh.
my mate is 13, and shes doing stuff. i dont think you should be.
focus on school work, gettin a good educaiton/grade.
Have time hanging out with friends, makin the most of life. dont fink about all that now, itll make life boring, confusing and worhtless. and youll be stressed. push boys out of ur life for a bit, and just stick with ur girls bebss[: x

By: Emily

Emily — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 21:19:56 +0000

okay try to get over this boy who moved away, and dont do anything you dont want to in my oppinion you are to young i am 14 and really think you should wait you want to hang on to your child hood doing anything your not ready for will really mess up your youth…trust me i wish i could still be a child

By: abbie.

abbie. — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 20:51:19 +0000

this guy is taking you for advantage and if you let him take advantage you’ll end up having a bad reputation. say noo and when you really like someone then you should do stuff. you will end up hoping for him to like you the same way you may like him but think about what he’s saying to you. he is clearing off all his thoughts and using you.

By: Shadows of midnight

Shadows of midnight — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 19:09:32 +0000

Sweetheart,

You know something? Today, I was very upset with my own self when I stumbled upon this question of yours. Going through your question, I could actually start to realize that life is not how it seems. Just a few moments before it seemed to be me that my life was life a dark tunnel, i was loosing myself to this hollowing darkness. But, I feel, that my sorrows are even less when compared to yours.

It is because I still know that I am this, and at the end of the day I am only this much elastic. But, dear, you are loosing yourself. Believe me, nothing in life is more important than knowing who you are. What you want to be. What you want to be that will make you happy. It is your life, it is a gift from God to you. These boys that you are so concerned with, when the stars shine down, will not care if you survive, if you two breads to eat or a place to sleep. If today a cyclone hits your home, they won’t come to save you.

It is always you, you and you. When you cry hours and hours, in loneliness, they don’t come to you. So why should you ever care to do something they have asked you to do? Dear, be happy with what you are, what you are from your soul, from within. Don’t ever change yourself for someone else’s love, cause love would never expect you to change. Believe me, somebody, somewhere in this world is waiting for you. He has started loving you even before he knew it was love and he will keep on loving you till the end of the world.

Get involved in education, try to become the best you can be. Challenge yourself, push your limits. Make a change in this world, this way you really feel you are loved. Today, when you come out of your school, ask to go to an orphanage and give a small child a five dollar note. You’ll see the smile. That’s love.

Take care. Be very happy. You might wake up tomorrow, to see you are in a totally different world- in heaven.

By: kira and jacie

kira and jacie — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:44:33 +0000

i think you just need to sit down with the boy and tell him your not a girl who wants to be walked all over like a doormat coz in my eyes thats not how us girls should be treated. If your not in a relationship with the person then technically you should not be forced into doing something you dnt want to do…

good luck x x

By: marisa

marisa — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 11:02:26 +0000

Dear 13 year old,

You’re very smart for your age. I know this because you understand that somebody should love your for YOU and also have feelings for you before you do anything with them. So you’re already on the right track. Don’t worry so much. Life is confusing and we all want to have the right answers and do the right thing. From the sounds of it- you just need love. Maybe you don’t get enough love and attention in your family? Anyway, the key is to try love yourself by filling your days with things that make you happy and will make you confident. Get to know yourself! That’s my best advice. No one can love you or make you happy. Only you can and once you do that, you will really unlock the key to love from others. So keep up the strong, confident attitude.

Hope this helps!

By: marissa

marissa — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 10:51:58 +0000

Dear 13 year old,

Hope this helps!

By: Jemma

Jemma — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 08:26:02 +0000

I cannot believe what I’m reading I’m 17 and babes let me tell you one thing boys come and go
Trust me they do and this will continue for agggeeesss!!!
There’s one thing u don’t want to been seen as and that’s one of those
Girls who do that kind of thing and everyone knows about it
Your only fourteen babe how can u be thinking of these things seriously
I’m not going to sit here and say think about life think about education
Because I was young once and those kind of comments justr make u think
Ahhhh shut up lol so all I can say is babe when u get a little older and u chose
To say no to this boy u will be so happy and pleased with yourself
Hopefully u do say no though and tell him aswell he’s to young for this!!!
Take everyones advice pleaseee!! I can’t stress enough xxxx