Comments on: I still can’t stop thinking about him http://myagonyaunt.com/i-still-cant-stop-thinking-about-him/ Relationship Advice Sat, 28 Aug 2010 21:40:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Lisa http://myagonyaunt.com/i-still-cant-stop-thinking-about-him/comment-page-1/#comment-92 Lisa Thu, 25 Dec 2008 13:14:27 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=9#comment-92 I hope the advice I gave helped you. You can find me anytime at my website: anonymousletters.net I am an agony aunt who answers help letters for free. I like helping people and don't like to see others in pain. I hope the advice I gave helped you. You can find me anytime at my website: anonymousletters.net
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]]> By: Lisa http://myagonyaunt.com/i-still-cant-stop-thinking-about-him/comment-page-1/#comment-7 Lisa Sat, 04 Oct 2008 17:19:28 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=9#comment-7 Whatever you shared with this man at the age of 17, the reality is that he's now engaged to be married to someone else. And you need to accept that. Any 'looks' he may be giving you are meaningless because he's not free to act on them. Besides, he's not yet legally married. If he wanted to, he could end his engagement and come back to you. The fact he doesn't shows you he wants to be with her- not you. Besides, you deserve better than this ambivalent man who may not even know what he wants. My advice is to keep your distance. If he truly regrets his engagement and cares for you, he WILL end it and come after you. If not, you're honestly better off without him. You need to think about what kind of man you want. Does integrity matter to you or do you truly want a man who'd be willing- if he were- to cheat on his fiancee with you? Someone who did it with you would do it TO you later. Also, hang on to YOUR self-respect& values by refusing to help him betray the woman he's engaged to. You're confused because you think he's your first& true love. But if you keep your distance, stay well away from him& his family, and be patient, you WILL meet someone FAR BETTER for you- who won't be engaged to another& free to devote all his time& energy just to YOU. THINK. Good luck. Whatever you shared with this man at the age of 17, the reality is that he’s now engaged to be married to someone else. And you need to accept that.

Any ‘looks’ he may be giving you are meaningless because he’s not free to act on them. Besides, he’s not yet legally married. If he wanted to, he could end his engagement and come back to you. The fact he doesn’t shows you he wants to be with her- not you.

Besides, you deserve better than this ambivalent man who may not even know what he wants.

My advice is to keep your distance. If he truly regrets his engagement and cares for you, he WILL end it and come after you. If not, you’re honestly better off without him.

You need to think about what kind of man you want. Does integrity matter to you or do you truly want a man who’d be willing- if he were- to cheat on his fiancee with you? Someone who did it with you would do it TO you later.

Also, hang on to YOUR self-respect& values by refusing to help him betray the woman he’s engaged to.

You’re confused because you think he’s your first& true love. But if you keep your distance, stay well away from him& his family, and be patient, you WILL meet someone FAR BETTER for you- who won’t be engaged to another& free to devote all his time& energy just to YOU. THINK. Good luck.

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