January 11, 2010
I snogged a boy loads
the other day i snogged this boy loads of times, but he has a girlfriend, i
really like this boy and i thought he liked me cos of what happened but i’m not
to sure anymore.
he told his mate that i’m a really good kisser though, but i don’t know what to do?
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I’ve seen a situation similar to this the only difference is i was the girlfriend. I’ve now dumbed him because i felt that he no longer loved me and wanted the other girl instead. What age are you cause in situations like this i find that age does have something to do with it
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I think if this boy has a girlfriend you should just leave it. If he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend in the first place, is he really boyfriend material? Move on, there are plenty of nice boys out there that will treat you better than this boy treated his girlfriend.
Holly.
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He has a girlfriend, back away now. If he’s cheating on her now, he’ll most likely do it again within his next relationship and i really hope that relationship isn’t with you. For your sake. You’ll only get hurt.
Try to move on, i know it’s difficult because i’ve been through exactly the same thing, it hurts. Have fun with your friends and keep him off your mind, he’s not worth it. Good luck
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I think you should sleek to the boy in private and let him know how u feel and hope for the best. Good luck.
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there two options, either he just wanted some fun and thought you were easy or he secertly likes you too. i would play it hard to get and see what he does.
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i think that he is a jurk for cheating on his girlfriend and i think you could do better than some one like that!!!
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I wouldn’t even bother with him. He has a girlfriend. Imagine if she found out, then what would happen. I have been in this situation before and he played me. He made out that he could look after me n that he loved me. The next day, when I found out he did actually have a girlfriend, I went upto him in the middle of town, when he was with his girlfriend n I kneed him in the balls. I told the girl that she was better off without him. She dumped him n now me n that girl, Claire, are best friends. We talk about what he used to say n do, then we compare them n laugh at how sad n desperate he is lol x x x
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I don’t think he’s in the frame of mind to settle down with any-one and to have a commitment. I think you should go for someone who is.
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Heyyyy,
Did you actually no that he had a girlfriend when you first snogged him because if you didnt then its not your fault its his ask him straight whats going on in his mind and if hes still being a pri*k then act like your not interested and see what he does good luck.x
Jade x
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I personally think you should stay away from this boy, he has cheated on his current girlfriend, and if he breaks up with her, and you end up dating this boy, what makes you think he is going to have changed, and not cheat on you?
I think if you like this boy, you should give him some space, and see if he comes to you, play hard to get, becasue its the best way to determine if a boy actually likes you.
Good Luck.
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Ok, so you like like this guy,
really you should stay away from him because chances are once a cheater always a cheater. But it really depends on the him and how he feels about you both maybe, he likes you better which doesn’t justify what he done but explains it.
My advice is confront him and see how he feels if he shrugs it off steer clear , if he admits his love for you (which he probably won’t) tell him to finish it with her, if he still strings you along tell the guy’s girlfriend and finish it with him!
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okay, i have a friend in this situation and i’ll tell you what i told her. he probably likes you a little and had a small lapse in self control if he liked you more than his girlfriend he would have broken up with her im sorry but the chanse is it ment allot more to you than it did to him hope it all works out. x.
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did you know he had a girlfriend, if you didnt then well you probably have to tell this girl whats happened that it was all a misunderstanding. So then she can dump him, and doesnt have to go out with a cheating boy. And if you did, then well :/
I know the situation can get so tempting, he leans in he kissses you before you know it, its a good kiss you cant push away or stop. But maybe you should have tried, BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE GOES OUT WITH HIM? how would u feel if sum1 snogged ur bf. now im not gettin on at u im jus trying to make u see the point bbz x
gotta be careful in future, now dont see this lad agen im sorry but he cud cheat on u, u no. he might be usin u, he might be seeing lots of other girls n kissin em all :/
do wots right for u, talk to ur bestfriends etc, they will give u good advice too x
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He should never of snogged you when he had a girlfriend. Now you say that you really like him. Would you honestly want to be with somebody that cheats ? Once a cheater always cheater. Good luck xx
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Honestly, i dissagree with everyone above, you only live once, so live it to the full. If you like him adn you don’t mind that he has a girlfriend and arn’t bothered that she could get hurt, crying and be heart broken then go for it, and have the time of your life.
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dont keep doing this move on i no you might still like him but you cant go stealing people boy friends and there has to be someone better out there. there normaly is. and also have some respect for yourself cause that boy could be just thinking of you as a girl who just goes wiv him
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Dont bother love he aint worth it… once a cheater always a cheater… u can do better
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Just because he says ur a gd kisser, it doesn’t neccesarily mean he likes you more than this other girl. I’d say leave him to his girlfriend and find a boy who is interested in just you. Gemma x
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i think you should leave welll alone. i am currently fooling around with some boy who only just dumped his girlfriend, but i still feel guilty because i urged him to dump her. please dont act on it anymore, as she will not be the only person to get hurt. xx
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If he says you’re a good kisser then why are you wasting your time on jerk like him who is busy cheating on his girlfriend? You’ve got a nation of boys to pick from, and now you know you’re good at kissing too; back out before it’s too late!
I wish I knew whether or not I was a good kisser.
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OMG ! He should’nt of kissed you , thats very bad !
You should not say anything ,, and see how it goes .
Maybe it will drift off ….
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I wouldn’t waste my time on a cheater. If he cheated on her what makes you think he won’t end up cheating on you? Move on.. there’s plenty more fish in the sea
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