I slept with another girl when I was drunk
By Agony Aunt | October 20, 2008
i am wrighting to you because i have done something terrible, and i cant really talk to anyone about it. i love my girlfriend more than life its self, but i have been unfaithful, i slept with another girl when i was drunk the other nigh.
Now my girlfriend is away at university, i am finding things difficult because if i told her i know she would end our relationship. i know i am in the wrong, big time. but i dont want to loose her, she is everything to me. ive been in and out of relationships but i have finally found the girl for me, we are so happy together, i hate myself for what i have done, she doesnt deserve what i have done.
Why, when everything is perfect does something have to go so terribly wrong, i know this is all my fault and i cant blame anyone else. i have messed up so bad and im scared of the outcome, i dont know what id do without her. i just need someone to talk to, get things off my chest, please just help me in what ever way you can.
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You need to find a counselor or someone objective to talk to face to face. You made a big mistake and your girlfriend has the right to know. Apart from anything else, I hope you took precautions as you could unknowingly pass on a sexual disease to your girlfriend. Sleeping with strangers is unsafe- and the price of infidelity can be very high nowadays.
You need to calm down, acknowledge what you did, then you need to tell your girlfriend. She deserves to know the truth even it means she will end the relationship. Even if she did, it wouldn’t be the end of the world. It would be hard but you would eventually have the chance to start over with someone else- now that you’ve learned your lesson. Lying is never the answer. If you REALLY love this girl, at least have the decency to come clean and tell her the truth. Two wrongs (cheating AND lying) don’t make a right.
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