I need to know where I stand
Hi I’m a single mum with 3 children and have been seeing this guy for about 2mths and everything has been going well until the beginning of this week. He has children of his own and they stay quite away from him,but the problem is his children didnt want to see him and that has been over a year now and there was nothing he could do about it but wait.
The wait paid off as they now want to see him,which is great news. He was shocked with the out of blue text. Thing is since he got the text he has told me he wants space to clear his head as he has lots on his mind from thinking about what he’s gonna be like with and what to say to his kids as its been so long and think about things with me,whether he wants to be with me and other stuff and says he’s gonna be quiet..whats confusing is he says were still together,wants to keep in contact..
I havent heard back from him and not sure if i should just leave it for him to contact me and give him the space he needs and also how long to leave it for before i get in touch and ask him what is happening as im only human and have feelings as well and need to know where i stand..hope you can help me with my dilemma as dont want to do the wrong thing…look forward to your help,many thanks
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Give him another week to clear his head and sort himself out. The more space you give him the better as he probably needs to organize his life again now his kids are a part of it once more.
If he doesn’t contact you in a week’s time, then you call him& talk honestly. Tell him directly you need to know where you stand. As you said, you’re only human and if he’s no longer interested in this relationship, then it’s better to find out now rather than later.
Look up EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) on Google or look under EFT section on siouxhealer.co.uk This method is great for boosting self confidence& will open you to meeting more people if things don’t work out with this man. Just because you have 3 kids doesn’t mean you can’t meet the right man& be happy.
I hope my advice helped you. I’m an agony aunt and my website is
anonymousletters.net
Go to my site and contact me through the contact me page if you need me.