I love her more than I can Imagine
I was seeing this girl for 4 years and broke up in August 2011. Last year, from September to November 2010 – we had more than our fair share of fights. i was petty and short tempered then. This resulted in her getting scared of me and how I would react to scenarios she wasn’t sure of. This led her to lying about small inconsequential things like staying back in college (under the pretext of being in class). I found out about these “white lies” 3 days before separating.
However, I made a conscious effort to change myself from January 2011 and did succeed in reducing the fighting. However, she is under the impression that the fighting reduced because of her lies.
Now, she feels really guilty about the lies and doesnt want to stay in the relationship. I have told her that the lies Do Not Upset me and that she started lying in the first place only because of my irrational behaviour. But, she still feels guilty and doesnt want to get back.
I love this girl more than I can imagine and want her back. We are friends at this point and talk on a daily basis. What should my POA be?
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I have been in similar situation to your ex. It is a living hell, worried that the next thing you say could be taken the wrong way. Lying is sometimes just to prevent more arguing. Have you thought about getting professional advice about your temper? So many people let their mental health go unchecked. If you do have problems there is plenty of help out there. You could even possibly think about counselling?
It is sad when a relationship breaks down and I imagine you are both feeling very down and unhappy. Maybe you could see if she would like to start again from fresh….taking her out for a meal once a week or doing something else you both enjoy. Maybe if you seek help it may help her feel more comfortable esp. if she is scared of you.
Despite what some people say some people can change but you have to really want it. From what I can make out you really love this girl and she loves you….lose it forever or save it….I say save it or you may regret it!