October 20, 2008
I Like A Girl At Work A Lot
I am currently in a relationship with a girl who i think i love but theres this girl at work who i like a lot and i think i could grow to love and i know she likes me because shes told me. I dont want to break my girlfriends heart because i love her but i want to be with the girl from work, what should i do ?
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If you have feelings for the girl at work & think about her, then that shows that you’re not mature enough for a serious commitment. You’re NOT ready to be committed to your current girlfriend. Pls don’t make the mistake of trying to commit then end up cheating on your girlfriend- who you say you love- and end up hurting her. If you were truly in love with her& ready to settle down, you wouldn’t bother about the girl at work. Sure, you could be attracted to her- but you’d able to keep things in perspective. You wouldn’t sit here asking if there’s a way to have your cake& eat it. There isn’t.
If you really care about& respect your current girlfriend, you owe her the truth: That you love her but are just NOT ready for a serious commitment. That way nobody gets hurt.
Think about it this way. If the shoe was on the other foot& your girl wasn’t ready to settle down or fancied someone at work, would you rather she told you directly (even though it hurts) or would you rather she mainted the status quo while cheating on you with her co-worker on the side& you found them in a compromising position together?
Please treat others as you would have them treat you. Especially someone you say you love. Not committing to anyone till you sort yourself out& know WHO you want is an option. Cheating on someone and/or lying to someone you say you love shouldn’t be.
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I think that time apart from the girl at work would do you good. The trouble is, we always want what we can’t have. I don’t think that you would want a relationship with this girl, you just think you do. If you love your girlfriend then stick by her and focus on that relationship. By all means, date the other girl if you wish, but at the end of the day if you do, then more than one’s heart will possibly break.
if your with someone and your attracted to someone else you really can’t be in love with or commited to your girlfriend if you truly believe you love your girlfriend don’t even get involved with this other girl otherwise you may regret it.