Comments on: I have trust issues

By: Sosmelly

Sosmelly — Thu, 15 Apr 2010 17:45:34 +0000

that is horrible for you but the only way to help is for you to confront him and in a way you would be helping yourself the fact that he did something so bad, then you van sort out your own sexuality in a rational way

By: leigh

leigh — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 00:53:41 +0000

When we are a child, the world we think must be good. When we get a little older, it’s not. When we are teenagers, we blame the problems of the world on the other sex, boys hate girls, girls hate boys. When we get older still, we find it is more complex, and not simple like that.

By: leigh

leigh — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 06:59:08 +0000

Rose, it depends what you spent the money on. Ornaments and new plates and curtains, or plumbing and electrical tradesmen. If you just went out shopping with his money, even a joint account with no discussion on unnecessary stuff without asking him, then you paid him no respect, which is needed to keep a marriage going. If you keep behaving this way, you will have no man, or child if you take their money. And this includes modernising, and does he also like what you buy. But if things needed fixing then he should understand, but only really if you phone him first, but if you couldn’t he shouldnt be angry.

By: leigh

leigh — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 06:51:39 +0000

I wreckon this guy will gather a lot of enemies both male and female. He has a behaviour pattern, that suggests behavioural problems both mentally and physically. And that approach will be of all issues, in a different way, but, like that. He may be heading for prison in his much later years. Its not that he is a guy, he’s actually a human who is nuts. And it sounds like to get that way, he’s had a pretty hard childhood, and later with enemies, a pretty hard later life. You are just experiencing the world, Life is like a box of chocolates.

By: leigh

leigh — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 01:43:38 +0000

Its not soley a male issue. A male treats woman with what his mother teaches. So you get a bad guy, a bad woman was behind it. There’s good and bad in both sexes, its usually the family

By: steph

steph — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:09:15 +0000

it seems to me as if your male friend has taken you coming to him as a sign that you wanted more than just a friendship, this probably isnt your fault as all you need to do is smile at a guy and they think you want to sleep with them. i know it might be akward but you need to talk to him and find out what happened that night, he may have just left you after you passed out, and if so then you can put it behind you. as for the liking girls part, this could be one of 2 things, either you genuinly like girls or your just giving up on men. its normal to find people of the opposite sex attractive especially if your female! but you need to wait and see how your feelings develop before you jump to any conclusions! hope this helps you x steph x

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xfxlxixnxkxexfxlxaxsxcxhxe — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 20:30:41 +0000

trust issues … >
my brother did the same .. and i also didn’t find any person who i could convide in . it was a situation without a way out . i didn’t know what do do .. sometimes when the problems seemed to outgrow me … i passed out . it happened at home , at school or in the train .. it was horrible
then the school started to be irritated and wanted to know what was going on with me .. but i couldn’t tell my secret any person .. i doubt nobody would be able to keep this secret ..
i mean .. it was my brother an i didn’t want my parents to be disappointed , i didn’t want to destroy my family ..
but then one day I couldn’t surpess my feelings anymore .. so i disclosed the secret . i talked to my class teacher.. and now i’m feeling much better . maybe you should do the same …. after it happened .. i also couldn’t trust in any person anymore .. ..but now everything has changed ..

By: Rose

Rose — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 12:56:15 +0000

I used my husbands card to sort few things out in the house thinking I will pay it back with the new job offer I got. The job was withdrawn and I am back to the the drawing board, my husband has now find out that I used his card, he is not happy with me at all and will not come back home until I tell him how I’m going to repay thgis money back .

Help me please

By: Hannah

Hannah — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 23:31:56 +0000

hey, it seems to me that this boy just wants to lose it and you dont need him! i waited 4 the one i loved so should you plus your too young and under age! good luck x

By: AngelaRose__

AngelaRose__ — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 18:25:08 +0000

Hi Sweetheart,

Im really really sorry for what you’ve had to go through. No-one deserves that. I totally understand why you have trust issues, I did too. And it took a hell of a long time but I managed to get through to the other side and now I am still not 100% but I do have a guy that I love deeply in my life.

First things first, You cannot beat yourself up and blame yourself for what has happened. It’s the past and theres no going back now. Leave it behind and let go of your pain. The last thing you need is to mope around the house feeling sad over guys. Go shopping with friends, spend some time with your family and just enjoy life and go out as much as you can. You can’t expect for things to just happen by themselves.

As for your guy friends that cross the line, make sure they take you seriously when you say no. If not, then cut them off. You do not need people that are going to hurt you in your circle of friends and what your close guy friend and ex did to you is not justifiable AT ALL.

Your attraction to girls could be because you are scared to let another guy close to you again or it could be genuine. To find out for real, talk to someone close to you.

I know it doesn’t seem like it but please try to believe me when I say that things are gonna be okay. Because they really will.

Oh, and just one last thing…

Don’t be afraid of love. Trust me, the pain is worth it in the end when you find the one you were looking for.

Best of luck.