It was a childish thing to do.

Sadie, x

- And dear ….

This situation is not uncommon in the work place.
Many an employee find themselves drawn into a confusing and more often then not messy situation with someone in a postition of power.

The main things you need to consider is;
A) This man is married.
B) He has a small child.
C) He is capable of cheating.

Find time to sit by your self and really think about the benifits.
Do they outway the cons??

You have both already decided to forget about it, which is not a good sign.
If he really was hellbent on being with you he surely be able to stomach getting into bed with another woman at night? regardless of the fact that its the mother of his child.

You deserve someone who can give you the full package and not just a taster here and there, and right now, your only sampling.

Hope this has Helped you in some way.

Sadie, x

Your main focus is your job. I think you should just keep working as normal and not let your relationship with your boss get in the way. And never give up. Do not leave unless it becomes too much to bear.

Hope I helped.

i this will be hard to do but what i think you should do is tell your manager that the flirting has to stop, remind him that he is married and has a child. if he goes mad he clearly was only interested in having a fling, you know messing around. also talk to him about his wife and children and refuse to be a thing on the side. if he has no intention of leaving his wife or delays speaking about what he plans to do about his wife and children you should realise he has no intention of leaving them.

many men are only interested in having a fling on the side. like the initial thrill of it. the majority of men who do this sort of thing say, to the person they have on the side , “oh your the one etc etc” . most of the time they never end up leaving their wives.

finally, how long have you worked at the company ? he cannot possibly say you have always been the one if you havent been working there most of your life. and judging by your letter it doesnt sound like you are very old. .

i hope my advice helps. x

Yours ?

Don’t be a fool. If things blow up- and they will- you will end up losing your job AND this man who will most likely choose to stay with his wife. Your actions are encouraging him to cheapen you& see you as an “extra bit on the side.” Is that how you really want to be thought of?

Why is your self- esteem so low that you feel you can only be involved with a married man? Don’t you deserve someone unavailable? Do you really want to break up a marriage? Do you want to be the cause of his child’s having nightmares at night and being without a dad, seeing his or her dad only at weekends? Would you have wanted some woman to do to your mom and you what you’re doing to this child and this family? Would you like to be in his wife’s shoes? Or would you prefer that he divorce her, and marry you- only to cheat on you with someone else he works with?

I know that my questions seem harsh but you need to get real here. Don’t fool yourself that this man is madly in love with you and that you’re the only woman he’s looked at other than his wife. Even if he likes you, his main aim is to get you into bed and then go back to his wife. If he’s so unhappy with her, why hasn’t he left her yet? Is he waiting for his child to grow up first?!

Please THINK. Please develop your values, your self-esteem, your dignity and self-respect and end this foolish flirtation and find a new job- before things REALLY get out of hand- and you end up regretting you ever met this loser.