I have cheated on him several times
By Agony Aunt | October 20, 2008
I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and have cheated on him several times. I recently met someone else who I was seeing for just over a month but decided that I wanted to make things work with my boyfriend so finished it but now I can’t stop thinking about the other guy and want to get back in touch with him.
I feel that maybe my boyfriend isn’t the one as I’ve cheated on him so much but feel he would give me security for the future. I’m so confused and don’t know what to do, please help.
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You can’t just stay with someone because he might give you future security; it isn’t a good enough reason. I also think you need some counseling as you seem to have a problem with commitment. Cheating on someone is a sign that: 1- There’s something wrong with the relationship. 2- There’s something wrong with your self-respect and values.
You need to learn to value yourself and behave with dignity. If you’re unhappy with this man, cheating is not the answer. Jumping from one relationship to the other won’t solve anything either; it just confuses you more& makes you even more unhappy. Take time to sort out your life. You need time alone to discover who you are and what you want out of life BEFORE you get involved with anyone. Any relationship is bound to fail in your current state of mind. You simply don’t know what you want.
You really need counseling to help you sort out your life. There are organizations like MIND which give free counseling. Press the word MIND in a search engine to reach their website.
I hope the advice I gave helped you. You can find me anytime at my website: anonymousletters.net
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Look up EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) on Google or under EFT section on siouxhealer.co.uk This is a great method for building confidence and will help you feel better about yourself so you make the right decisions. It is effective so do try it.