I cry everyday
I’ve been with my boyfriend for around 18 months now. I never thought I’d meet someone who made me as happy as he did and we made such a great couple with so much in common. We moved in together a few months ago (I moved a few hundred miles to be with him) and I have been under a lot of pressure with my job since we have lived together. Last week he told me that he has felt differently since we had a huge argument last months. I was devastated as he did not share this with me. He said my mood swings were unbearable and he felt like I was a different person. He said that he still loves me and we are trying to work things out. I am due to start a new job which will take a lot of pressure off me and I think that things would have improved drastically anyway but since we had our talk I have been making much more of an effort to not snap at him or cause arguments.
The problem is that even though he is talking about the future and keeps saying that he feels as though he has got his old girlfriend back, I still feel uneasy. I cry every day and have horrible dreams every night about our relationship ending. I feel tortured. I am paranoid all the time if he doesn’t answer when I call him and think he is going to finish our relationship every night when I get home. Although he is saying the right words I just have a bad gut feeling. My feelings may be right but I may also be paranoid. The fact he has felt differently and I did not pick up on it makes me feel like I’ve had the carpet pulled from under my feet. I just feel so low and don’t know what to say or do. I am too scared to talk to him about it because he indicates that everything is back to normal between us but I don’t fell normal. I feel like our relationship has shifted and I don’t know if it can go back!
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hmm, well by the sounds of things, i say you could talk to him about how your feeling, and that your paranoid about things. i’ve been in similer situations, to be honest, but me and my boyfriend are still together and sorting things out with communication. for a relationship to last, you need trust, love and communication. talk to him. tell him how you feel. ask him to be completely honest with you. tell him your scared. if he truly loves you, he would give back a god response and you two will live happily ever after. (: hope this has helped. x
i understand your situation but you should trust your partner enough to know that thats not the case.
I think you should stop worrying as worry will only lead to arguments and frustration, instead try to talk to your boyfriend and may be explain how you feel. Communication is the best tool of any relationship/ friendship and marriage. Once you have spokent o him, you should get an idea about how he feels which should put your mind to rest!
good luck
i know how you feel im alot younger than you and i have so much to learn but aslong as youve got him back that means youve got his trust back and then that means you can talk to him
i know you dont want to lose him thats why you say nothing but maybe just talk to him and things will change
Hope for the best x:)