I am getting bad vibes
Hi Agony Aunt, I am 41 yrs old and single. I have been friends/lovers with a gentleman of 60 for just over a year.
However he has a complicated life, he has an ex wife whom he still I believe has a relationship with, he has 2 children with her, who are grown up now. I recently got a very well paid new job, with company car etc. I have offered to take us away for a weekend, because we havent seen each other properly since last december.
He has agreed to meet up, and seems very enthusiastic at the moment, however I was quite annoyed today, when he dropped out of the blue that he has just purchased a brand new top of the range car, but hasnt offered anything towards the weekend !
Im starting to get quite bad vibes, and am wondering if Im doing the right thing ?
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Always listen to your gut; it won’t let you down. If your intuition is telling you that something isn’t quite right or on the level with this guy, then that’s probably true.
It would be best to talk through your doubts with him, and- if he doesn’t put them to rest- to break up with him now rather than later. Remember there are plenty of other good men out there, so pls don’t let yourself be taken advantage of. Good luck.
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You are doing things wrong. He’s either fully available or not. No half this and that like sex and friends. or he will treat you like this with no respect. a man treats you how you expect to be treated. a woman doesnt pay for a whole trip. even as a couple it comes from a joint account meaning both have put in. but hes also an asshole really for still going along with what you are prepared to give away so readily. and its that asshole in him that you have picked up
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