Comments on: I am embarressed to ask him out http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/ Relationship Advice Mon, 05 Sep 2011 20:39:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: chelsea http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-1235 chelsea Wed, 26 May 2010 17:04:45 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-1235 omg, I have like the same situation now!!! this guy thinks of me as a friend but really like him and i cant stop thinking about him! omg, I have like the same situation now!!! this guy thinks of me as a friend but really like him and i cant stop thinking about him!

]]> By: girlinlove http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-1155 girlinlove Sun, 02 May 2010 14:18:00 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-1155 Hi,I am in the same situation and it is very difficult,I know. If I were you I wouldn't exactly ask him out but just tell him that you care and want him.That's the best because it is not very common for a girl to ask a boy out.Just be confident and always be yourself!:) Actually,I am thinking about doing the same thing.I'll just tell him the truth. It's tough for me for the fact that I am a very shy person.He is too! He is very,very shy so though he might like me back it's difficult for him to tell me. That's why I am taking a chance!That's what you should do too!Go for it sweetheart!!!I'm with you! Hi,I am in the same situation and it is very difficult,I know.
If I were you I wouldn’t exactly ask him out but just tell him that you care and want him.That’s the best because it is not very common for a girl to ask a boy out.Just be confident and always be yourself!:)
Actually,I am thinking about doing the same thing.I’ll just tell him the truth.
It’s tough for me for the fact that I am a very shy person.He is too!
He is very,very shy so though he might like me back it’s difficult for him to tell me.
That’s why I am taking a chance!That’s what you should do too!Go for it sweetheart!!!I’m with you!

]]> By: Billie http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-1056 Billie Sun, 04 Apr 2010 17:55:56 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-1056 Hey I have just turned fourteen, and i am a giant, fugly and a tomboy! i really like this boy who is in my year, same form, SITS NEXT TO ME in form time, is in practically all the same lessons as me and is taking almost the same GCSE's as me next year! in one way i am overjoyed i get to be with him all the time, and in another way, terrified, because he knows i like him, three different people have asked him out for me, and when i told my best mate, somebody heard and it went round THE WHOLE SCHOOL! yeah, embarrasment central. but anyway, when im with him, i feel really shy and weird, because ive known him for ages, and we are quite good mates. so now he's kinda scared of me, but he's starting to forget 'yesterdays drama' and is moving on to some new drama. (btw, the new drama is actually a plot, i told all my mates im over ollie and i like this new guy, even though hes fugly, so ollie gets jealous) and hes not so scared, and im actually getting more confident around him, but ive nevr had a BF so im too scared to ask him out, and im not trying the friend approach again, so everyone says i should leave him a note telling him how i feel. but if i do that he may get scared of me again. (why is he scared of me you may ask? im lanky. thats why. im 5ft9 and hes 5ft4. BIG difference) so, what should i do? im rlly confuzzled! im actually at a point that i cut myself out of anger at being fugly and lanky and a tomboy! please help! (thsi has happened before, about a boy who's like my boy BFF and i asked him out but he said he didnt want to ruin our friendshiip, then he started dating my girl BFF.) :S Hey
I have just turned fourteen, and i am a giant, fugly and a tomboy! i really like this boy who is in my year, same form, SITS NEXT TO ME in form time, is in practically all the same lessons as me and is taking almost the same GCSE’s as me next year! in one way i am overjoyed i get to be with him all the time, and in another way, terrified, because he knows i like him, three different people have asked him out for me, and when i told my best mate, somebody heard and it went round THE WHOLE SCHOOL! yeah, embarrasment central. but anyway, when im with him, i feel really shy and weird, because ive known him for ages, and we are quite good mates. so now he’s kinda scared of me, but he’s starting to forget ‘yesterdays drama’ and is moving on to some new drama. (btw, the new drama is actually a plot, i told all my mates im over ollie and i like this new guy, even though hes fugly, so ollie gets jealous) and hes not so scared, and im actually getting more confident around him, but ive nevr had a BF so im too scared to ask him out, and im not trying the friend approach again, so everyone says i should leave him a note telling him how i feel. but if i do that he may get scared of me again. (why is he scared of me you may ask? im lanky. thats why. im 5ft9 and hes 5ft4. BIG difference) so, what should i do? im rlly confuzzled! im actually at a point that i cut myself out of anger at being fugly and lanky and a tomboy! please help! (thsi has happened before, about a boy who’s like my boy
BFF and i asked him out but he said he didnt want to ruin our friendshiip, then he started dating my girl BFF.) :S

]]> By: Beth http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-1034 Beth Thu, 25 Mar 2010 18:49:49 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-1034 Heyy I'm 14 years old i am in year 9 at school and i am in love with a boy who is in the year above me, i have given him 2 valantines cards now and on the second one i put a note in saying that i do like him and i have done for ages and i am fed up of keeping it inside. His grandma lives only 2 doors away from me and when his mum drops him off in the morning before school he always looks to my house and i really want to know if he likes me and i am to scared to ask. I am stressing myself out big time. What should i do? Heyy
I’m 14 years old i am in year 9 at school and i am in love with a boy who is in the year above me, i have given him 2 valantines cards now and on the second one i put a note in saying that i do like him and i have done for ages and i am fed up of keeping it inside. His grandma lives only 2 doors away from me and when his mum drops him off in the morning before school he always looks to my house and i really want to know if he likes me and i am to scared to ask. I am stressing myself out big time. What should i do?

]]> By: Kat http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-1013 Kat Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:22:32 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-1013 It happens to everyone, I am a bit older but I have been through the same situation, and it does hurt when they say no. The best thing to do is not ask him out immediately, just get to know him a bit more, that way he'll know you're there and if you are yourself he'll notice you. Hang out with him in a mutual crowd and after a while casually suggest that you two hang out alone and if he says yes, it'll mean he enjoys your company. Just be yourself and get to know him a bit more and then you'll know with a bit more certainty whether you want a date with this guy. It happens to everyone, I am a bit older but I have been through the same situation, and it does hurt when they say no.
The best thing to do is not ask him out immediately, just get to know him a bit more, that way he’ll know you’re there and if you are yourself he’ll notice you. Hang out with him in a mutual crowd and after a while casually suggest that you two hang out alone and if he says yes, it’ll mean he enjoys your company. Just be yourself and get to know him a bit more and then you’ll know with a bit more certainty whether you want a date with this guy.

]]> By: leigh http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-987 leigh Mon, 08 Mar 2010 11:42:10 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-987 you dont even know him yet. He's probably yuck anyway. Most are or come with problems. you dont even know him yet. He’s probably yuck anyway. Most are or come with problems.

]]> By: Becky. http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-962 Becky. Sun, 21 Feb 2010 23:04:32 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-962 Well if you like him, what you waiting for ASK HIM OUT. lol x But I understand your nervous. Some helpful tips are here for you: 1. This was old school but still works the charm :) Get your mate to run over and ask him for you, he says no. You say good it was only a dare (this makes the boy be like, aw so she dont even wanna go out with me?) and then he'll maybe flirt,, and if he says yeah. well problem solved. 2. ask him face to face, if hes nice he cant turn you down in person can he, but if he does im sorry hes a jerk, well he is a jerk if he dont put it nicley. If he does turn you down, use the dare trick or something. 3. Over Internet, Texting, etc etc. and just ask him. 4. This is more like a little guide now: 1. talk to your bestfriends about him. let them get the 411 for you :) 2. ask everyone to tell you details about him, (prefferably someone who knows him really well). 4.find out what he likes then you can, play his fave songs out when you 'just so happen' to walk past him. or put on your msn name sumat he really likes, start the conversation off by srtarting with the fave band of his or anything. then start toflirt, maybe even play hard to get. if he asks you out, dont seem desperate. just go mm ill think about it and smile and walk away. text him that night though or internet whatever, and say yeah ive made my mind up its a yes x. :) HOPE THIS HELPS LOOL xx Well if you like him, what you waiting for ASK HIM OUT. lol x
But I understand your nervous. Some helpful tips are here for you:
1. This was old school but still works the charm :) Get your mate to run over and ask him for you, he says no. You say good it was only a dare (this makes the boy be like, aw so she dont even wanna go out with me?) and then he’ll maybe flirt,, and if he says yeah. well problem solved.
2. ask him face to face, if hes nice he cant turn you down in person can he, but if he does im sorry hes a jerk, well he is a jerk if he dont put it nicley. If he does turn you down, use the dare trick or something.
3. Over Internet, Texting, etc etc. and just ask him.
4. This is more like a little guide now: 1. talk to your bestfriends about him. let them get the 411 for you :)
2. ask everyone to tell you details about him, (prefferably someone who knows him really well).
4.find out what he likes then you can, play his fave songs out when you ‘just so happen’ to walk past him. or put on your msn name sumat he really likes, start the conversation off by srtarting with the fave band of his or anything.
then start toflirt, maybe even play hard to get. if he asks you out, dont seem desperate. just go mm ill think about it and smile and walk away. text him that night though or internet whatever, and say yeah ive made my mind up its a yes x.
:) HOPE THIS HELPS LOOL xx

]]> By: Ellie.is.here http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-931 Ellie.is.here Wed, 17 Feb 2010 16:08:53 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-931 hi , i think if u like a boy (or a girl) u should take a chance. you could suggest little thing like do u want to go 2 the pictures and if he doesnt seem 2 keen then say oh it wont just be us there will be and make a list of friends u no will come, and if he is totally keen well then go 4 it!!! hope my advise helps. :D p.s how do u write a message 2 agony aunt?) xo hi ,
i think if u like a boy (or a girl) u should take a chance. you could suggest little thing like do u want to go 2 the pictures and if he doesnt seem 2 keen then say oh it wont just be us there will be and make a list of friends u no will come, and if he is totally keen well then go 4 it!!!
hope my advise helps. :D

p.s how do u write a message 2 agony aunt?) xo

]]> By: leigh http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-856 leigh Wed, 27 Jan 2010 08:54:44 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-856 Most dont because most are thinking of sex. Unless hes thinking of some other sheila. Since you feel this way, youve received no signal from him suggesting he likes you. Have you tried to flirt a bit tactfully, or hinted at him that you like him. And see how he reacts. Most dont because most are thinking of sex. Unless hes thinking of some other sheila. Since you feel this way, youve received no signal from him suggesting he likes you. Have you tried to flirt a bit tactfully, or hinted at him that you like him. And see how he reacts.

]]> By: amy http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-embarressed-to-ask-him-out/#comment-825 amy Fri, 22 Jan 2010 12:43:24 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=125#comment-825 Hey, dont be affraid to ask! if you dont ask you never know! I asked my current boyfriend out 3 years ago, and i was like omg wha if he says no. But he didnt. He said that he had always liked me but just never had the balls to ask me out! Go for it girl. What do you have to loose? Hey,
dont be affraid to ask! if you dont ask you never know! I asked my current boyfriend out 3 years ago, and i was like omg wha if he says no. But he didnt. He said that he had always liked me but just never had the balls to ask me out! Go for it girl. What do you have to loose?

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