Comments on: I am 16 and have never had a boyfriend http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-16-and-have-never-had-a-boyfriend/ Relationship Advice Sat, 28 Aug 2010 21:40:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: littlemuffin http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-16-and-have-never-had-a-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-676 littlemuffin Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:51:51 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=81#comment-676 i know how you feel.im 16 i was resently in the same situation as you where, we talked on msn all the time and id never been in a relationship. i was verry nieve and innosent, to be honest i still am, but we too it slow, we didnt rush, and to be honest that the best thing to do, we are getting closer and closer. your best plan instead of throwing yourself into a relationship for the sake of having a relationship, begin a friendship, dont worry about your mates seeing you guys being friends, and show him what an amazing girl you can be, he will come running ^^ good luck i know how you feel.im 16 i was resently in the same situation as you where, we talked on msn all the time and id never been in a relationship. i was verry nieve and innosent, to be honest i still am, but we too it slow, we didnt rush, and to be honest that the best thing to do, we are getting closer and closer.

your best plan instead of throwing yourself into a relationship for the sake of having a relationship, begin a friendship, dont worry about your mates seeing you guys being friends, and show him what an amazing girl you can be, he will come running ^^

good luck

]]> By: bluekie http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-16-and-have-never-had-a-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-560 bluekie Mon, 07 Sep 2009 03:46:15 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=81#comment-560 being 16 and not having bf is not exactly a big issue.I am 18 and dont have any boyfriend and Im happy with it. I believe on the Mr.Right -principle. When the time is right, you'll meet him, the right person.After all, you should consider life more4 than just the whole relationship things. There's education, your dream you want to pursue and etc. And about the boy, if he likes you as much as you does, he should have the gut to make the first move..Why would you be a girlfriend to someone who dont even have the gut to tell you what he feels,right? being 16 and not having bf is not exactly a big issue.I am 18 and dont have any boyfriend and Im happy with it. I believe on the Mr.Right -principle. When the time is right, you’ll meet him, the right person.After all, you should consider life more4 than just the whole relationship things. There’s education, your dream you want to pursue and etc.
And about the boy, if he likes you as much as you does, he should have the gut to make the first move..Why would you be a girlfriend to someone who dont even have the gut to tell you what he feels,right?

]]> By: Luke http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-16-and-have-never-had-a-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-489 Luke Sat, 25 Jul 2009 01:15:48 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=81#comment-489 This is okay, theres someone for everyone darling and your time will come maybe you haven't had alot of boyfriends in the past but someone will like you x This is okay,
theres someone for everyone darling and your time will come
maybe you haven’t had alot of boyfriends in the past but someone will like you x

]]> By: alexandra http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-16-and-have-never-had-a-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-440 alexandra Thu, 09 Jul 2009 04:10:35 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=81#comment-440 don't feel bad about not haveing a boyfriend, I'm almost sixteen and never even been asked out Hey but of corse I am home schooled and I only go to one youth group, but none of the guys there are really the type I even want to date, so dont' worry about that but if you really like the guy and you are mentally marture enough go ahead and ask him out what have you to lose If he is as mentally mature as you he may say yes or no maybe he's scared to date because he's had a bad relationship, or maybe he's got a problem at home, So my advice would be get to know him first like ask him to go bowling with you as friends or something. don’t feel bad about not haveing a boyfriend, I’m almost sixteen and never even been asked out Hey but of corse I am home schooled and I only go to one youth group, but none of the guys there are really the type I even want to date, so dont’ worry about that but if you really like the guy and you are mentally marture enough go ahead and ask him out what have you to lose If he is as mentally mature as you he may say yes or no maybe he’s scared to date because he’s had a bad relationship, or maybe he’s got a problem at home, So my advice would be get to know him first like ask him to go bowling with you as friends or something.

]]> By: carley http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-16-and-have-never-had-a-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-420 carley Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:32:13 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=81#comment-420 i think you should try to b friends first so that you can get to no each other more and then when you think you no a few things about him you could say something like would you like to go to the cinima and carrie on from there. thats what i would do xx i think you should try to b friends first so that you can get to no each other more and then when you think you no a few things about him you could say something like would you like to go to the cinima and carrie on from there. thats what i would do xx

]]> By: Sam http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-16-and-have-never-had-a-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-160 Sam Fri, 10 Apr 2009 23:22:18 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=81#comment-160 You sound like you really care for this guy; and if you're talking the night away with him on IM then he must feel the same way. We don't sit and chat online for hours to people we don't like. Whether it's in a close-friend-sorta-way or a girlfriend-sorta-way, is the ultimate issue here. You think this guy likes you, then trust your instincts. Bring up the subject of taking your friendship further with him online, where he feels most comfortable. He might open up and it might get the ball rolling. You sound like you really care for this guy; and if you’re talking the night away with him on IM then he must feel the same way. We don’t sit and chat online for hours to people we don’t like. Whether it’s in a close-friend-sorta-way or a girlfriend-sorta-way, is the ultimate issue here. You think this guy likes you, then trust your instincts. Bring up the subject of taking your friendship further with him online, where he feels most comfortable. He might open up and it might get the ball rolling.

]]> By: Lisa http://myagonyaunt.com/i-am-16-and-have-never-had-a-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-111 Lisa Wed, 31 Dec 2008 10:23:32 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=81#comment-111 There are several ways you can contact him without his friends being around. When you talk to him on messenger, you can give him your phone or cell number and ask him to call you. You can ask him for his number. You can send him an email explaining how you feel. After that, he'll either approach you or ignore you. If he ignores you after receiving the email you'll know for sure he's not interested. It will hurt for awhile but you will get over it and you won't have lost through not trying. You can even tell him on IM how you feel (I really like you but I'm too shy to talk at college with your friends around. If you like me would you like to meet me at ?) Then suggest a time and place. Make it definite like 6 PM at the movies or whatever. That way you'll pin him down& he'll either agree to meet you or change the conversation. Again, if he won't give you a definite answer, you'll know he isn't interested. It will hurt but it will be better for you than where you are know won't it? At least you won't be in the dark wondering. When you see him in class force yourself to smile at him and look him in the eye for a second before you look away so he knows you like him. Remember he's shy and you're shy, so if you like each other& one of you doesn't take the initiative (make the first move) you both lose out. Pls do one of the steps suggested above so you don't kick yourself later wondering& wishing you'd done something. Even if he's not interested it IS better to know. And that way you'd be open to meeting someone else. The main thing is for you to work on your confidence so you have an easier time approaching people in all social situations (not just romantic). I'm very shy myself& I DO know what it's like. I suggest the following to boost your esteem to feel good about yourself whether or not you get the guy (and I hope you do) - Look up EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) on Google or under EFT section on siouxhealer.co.uk It's a great method for building confidence and will help you feel better. - Practice deep breathing (in through the nose) then hold then release through the mouth slowly and count to ten - Listen to free mp3 recording you can get for free through the net on search engines look up (free mp3 for building confidence) - Listen to relaxing music& exercise. Walking, swimming or any exercise is great for building esteem& releasing feel good hormones - Practice talking to people and rewarding yourself for doing small social activities you find hard. Smile at people you don't know and start conversations. Most will respond well. Those who don't it's their problem& not your issue. - Walk with your back straight& your head high. Body language plays a big part in boosting esteem. - Read books on confidence& apply the tips in them for feeling better. - Repeat positive affirmations to yourself daily at least 10 times (I'm a good and smart and beautiful person who deserves the best). - Keep a written journal and write positive statements and write your wishes as if they're coming true ( I like this guy and we're happy together) Read them before sleeping and visualize happy thoughts. - Have friends& hobbies so you don't spend all your time dreaming about this guy. Set aside time to dream about him so it doesn't consume all your waking hours. I hope my advice helped you. I'm an agony aunt and my website is anonymousletters.net Go to my site and contact me through the contact me page if you need me. There are several ways you can contact him without his friends being around. When you talk to him on messenger, you can give him your phone or cell number and ask him to call you. You can ask him for his number. You can send him an email explaining how you feel. After that, he’ll either approach you or ignore you. If he ignores you after receiving the email you’ll know for sure he’s not interested. It will hurt for awhile but you will get over it and you won’t have lost through not trying. You can even tell him on IM how you feel (I really like you but I’m too shy to talk at college with your friends around. If you like me would you like to meet me at ?) Then suggest a time and place. Make it definite like 6 PM at the movies or whatever. That way you’ll pin him down& he’ll either agree to meet you or change the conversation. Again, if he won’t give you a definite answer, you’ll know he isn’t interested. It will hurt but it will be better for you than where you are know won’t it? At least you won’t be in the dark wondering.

When you see him in class force yourself to smile at him and look him in the eye for a second before you look away so he knows you like him.

Remember he’s shy and you’re shy, so if you like each other& one of you doesn’t take the initiative (make the first move) you both lose out. Pls do one of the steps suggested above so you don’t kick yourself later wondering& wishing you’d done something. Even if he’s not interested it IS better to know. And that way you’d be open to meeting someone else.

The main thing is for you to work on your confidence so you have an easier time approaching people in all social situations (not just romantic). I’m very shy myself& I DO know what it’s like.

I suggest the following to boost your esteem to feel good about yourself whether or not you get the guy (and I hope you do)

- Look up EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) on Google or under EFT section on siouxhealer.co.uk It’s a great method for building confidence and will help you feel better.

- Practice deep breathing (in through the nose) then hold then release through the mouth slowly and count to ten

- Listen to free mp3 recording you can get for free through the net on search engines look up (free mp3 for building confidence)

- Listen to relaxing music& exercise. Walking, swimming or any exercise is great for building esteem& releasing feel good hormones

- Practice talking to people and rewarding yourself for doing small social activities you find hard. Smile at people you don’t know and start conversations. Most will respond well. Those who don’t it’s their problem& not your issue.

- Walk with your back straight& your head high. Body language plays a big part in boosting esteem.

- Read books on confidence& apply the tips in them for feeling better.

- Repeat positive affirmations to yourself daily at least 10 times (I’m a good and smart and beautiful person who deserves the best).

- Keep a written journal and write positive statements and write your wishes as if they’re coming true ( I like this guy and we’re happy together) Read them before sleeping and visualize happy thoughts.

- Have friends& hobbies so you don’t spend all your time dreaming about this guy. Set aside time to dream about him so it doesn’t consume all your waking hours.

I hope my advice helped you. I’m an agony aunt and my website is
anonymousletters.net
Go to my site and contact me through the contact me page if you need me.

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