Comments on: I am 14 and Pregnant

By: maria :) x

maria :) x — Thu, 10 Jun 2010 12:31:51 +0000

no one can tell you what you want to do and if you want to keep the baby. i have a child at 16 adn i am 18 now so my child is only 2 and all of my friends are going out yo knight clubs and i am sat at home with my son. my son has made me stronger but it has put me and my boyfriend throught so mutch i have been so ill. i did not know that i was pregnant throught the whole pregnancey so my mum and dad only found out when i did but the best thing is to tell them they might be angrey for a coupple of days btu they will serport you know matter what

good luck <3

By: pinky

pinky — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 17:11:41 +0000

you boyfriend regardless your mum liking him or not should be there when you tell her because this immediatly shows he is willing and is their for you which in time your mum will respect.

By: Alex G

Alex G — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 21:16:28 +0000

wow u type of people make me sick keep your pants up you dirty tramp and stop sleeping around i bet your boy friend didnt even love you he just wanted to get in your pants so do me a favour and find a coat hanger and cut the baby out yourself

By: anna

anna — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 23:20:15 +0000

i know exactly how you feel. i was in a relationship with a boy, and after 5 months, we had sex, and a couple of times later, the condom split, and i was left devistated. i honestly did’nt know what to do, i was 14 at the time. my boyfriend was going on about what we can do in the future and planning our lifes out together as a family. it didnt seem to bother him at all. after 4 weeks, i took a pregnancy test, and it came back possitive, i was devistated. a week later i took another one, and that one come back negitive. i was left confussed, distraught, and clueless.
luckly, two weeks later, i got a period, and i was so happy.
i know exactly how you feel babe, please just stay strong.
propably the best thing that you could do is:
a) tell your mam asap.
b) chat with your mam and boyfriend about what you want to do. think about the baby aswell as yourself.

i hope everything goes well for you, and good luck for you.
please stay strong, <3 x

By: Chella

Chella — Sun, 23 May 2010 18:32:36 +0000

You should tell your mum asap! She might be mad at first but shell be happier if you tell her now than later tbh. And you need to be sure your boyfriend will stand by you. He might not be worried now but being a parent is a huge responsibility. Good luck! X

By: Gemma

Gemma — Sat, 22 May 2010 16:42:31 +0000

Hi, there are 2 things you need to think about. You are very young to be having a child and he/she will take over your life completely which will unfortunately mean you will not fulfil your complete education. On the other hand, you might want to keep the child and if you have an abortion (which you probably won’t), then you might regret killing your child. I think even if your’e young, you should keep your child. He/she will soon grow to love you and that is a wonderful feeling, much better than having a job and working. Once your child is old enough, you can start working but you can never get back that baby if you had an abortion. All the special features about it would be gone! Try to break the news to your mum carefully, shouting it at her in a fury is only going to complicate things! I’m sure if your mum loves you and cares about you, she will understand and support you with whatever decision you make! Best of luck, Gemma x

By: Bruch

Bruch — Tue, 18 May 2010 17:24:30 +0000

Firstly I think you are too young to understand your feelings. it might just be infatuation you are feeling. Also telling your mom will be ideal because honestly, this is a very huge deal. stay positive

By: chrissi

chrissi — Tue, 11 May 2010 06:31:31 +0000

soz matey, that comment above was to sud. a dammable act? really? what century are you in? Puh-Leaze. anywayz, stay strong babe

By: Carrie

Carrie — Tue, 04 May 2010 20:22:25 +0000

Firstly, stay brave. It must be so hard and scary for you, I’m 14 myself. I think you really need to tell your Mum, she will really help you through this. It’ll be scary, and I can almost guarantee she will be mad as you lied before about where you were going. But, the sooner the truth comes out, the sooner she can support you and help you, and the less mad she will be. Say you have something to tell her, and sit her down, do it soon, the longer you stall, the more you will convince yourself not to do it. Also , your mum might help you decide what to do with your baby, but I’m sure she’ll love you whatever as you’re young and you’re hers. I want you to also consider maybe giving your child to close family, at least till you’re a bit older. Teenage years is where your life begins, and also,if you’re British, GCSE’s will arrive soon, followed by A Levels, and then maybe University. If you want to keep your baby, I would really consider giving him/her to a close family member until you are older, and visit him/her often though, because if you want to support your new family, you’ll need a good job, so consider Uni, and also you WILL need support, so tell your parents. Maybe, if you tell your mum, you could ask her to tell your Dad, you know how Dads can be. But, at the end of the day, it’s YOUR child, so listen to your heart, you won’t find your particular answer here.
I’m sorry for the essay, I just really wanted to help. ;D
And remember, if things get tough, whatever you decide, you will always have at least one other hand to hold, whether you know it or not. Things happen for a reason, and maybe this child is destiny.
Stay strong. <3

By: jennjenn

jennjenn — Sat, 01 May 2010 21:04:49 +0000

firstly,ask yourself , do i want a baby ?. then if the answers yes try to think of all the good things that could come out of you having a child. if the answers no ,then consider adoption . that way you can be sure that your baby is in a happy . some agencies even allow you to see your child after they have been adopted . remember abortion isnt the ONLY option .