He thinks I cheated on him, but I didn’t.
By Agony Aunt | November 6, 2008
me and my boyfriend have been together 5 months he split up with me yesterday because he thinks i cheated on him and i never what do i do? x
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You need to review your behaviour to find the truth. Either you did something which he misunderstood or someone’s been spreading false rumours about you. If that’s the case, you can explain the truth. If he doesn’t accept the truth, it means he doesn’t know who you really are and you’re better off without him. Do you really want a boyfriend who doesn’t trust you and thinks you’re a liar? Love is worthless without trust.
The other possible explanation is that your boyfriend has cheated on you and wants to shift the blame onto you so he can end the relationship and get to blame you at the same time- as a way to avoid taking responsibility for his actions. If this is the case, you’re also far better off without him. If he has cheated he will believe you’d do the same; cheaters believe all people cheat. Liars believe all people lie.
Be realistic and not naive here so you don’t get hurt. Face him directly and ask him if he’s cheated? If he refuses to talk to you and gets into another relationship soon, you’ll have your answer.
If you truly didn’t cheat, then you shouldn’t stay with a man who doesn’t know& appreciate your true character. It’s better to cut your losses& forget him. If your self-esteem isn’t low, you’ll know you can do much better for a boyfriend than this loser.
I hope the advice I gave helped you. You can find me anytime at anonymousletters.net I am an agony aunt who answers help letters for free. I like helping people and don’t like to see others in pain.
Look up EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) on Google. This method is great for helping you build your confidence& getting rid of stress.