Comments on: He is 3 times my age http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/ Relationship Advice Sat, 19 Jun 2010 21:21:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jessica http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-1109 Jessica Sun, 18 Apr 2010 13:10:44 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-1109 OK.. I don't have much experience mysel with guys, but here''s what I think you should do .. I think you should Break of the relationship. He's too old for you, and girls your age need to have fun dating different guys there own age. What future do you see with this guy? He's gonna get older, and by the time your his age, he's gonna be elderly. DO you want to spend your whole life with a guy who can't fulfil everything you want? You say you want to be a mother, but How could you be? Isn't a mother and a father supposed to bring up children together? He's alot older than you, and he's going to be elderly, and most likely pass away before you. Do you want a child to have an unbalanced childhood, where his daddy isn't going to be around as long as his mother? What influence is that going to give on your child? OK.. I don’t have much experience mysel with guys, but here’’s what I think you should do ..
I think you should Break of the relationship. He’s too old for you, and girls your age need to have fun dating different guys there own age. What future do you see with this guy? He’s gonna get older, and by the time your his age, he’s gonna be elderly. DO you want to spend your whole life with a guy who can’t fulfil everything you want?
You say you want to be a mother, but How could you be? Isn’t a mother and a father supposed to bring up children together? He’s alot older than you, and he’s going to be elderly, and most likely pass away before you. Do you want a child to have an unbalanced childhood, where his daddy isn’t going to be around as long as his mother? What influence is that going to give on your child?

]]> By: leigh http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-879 leigh Fri, 29 Jan 2010 06:03:32 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-879 What are you getting out of a shrivelled up male plum, while you remain a ripened peach. Is he wealthy? You need some type of compensation for your youth; social learnings going down the drain. If he has no provision of funds to give you, he's a taker, sapping up the life of the young. I mean you have young handsome men, all types of guys. You cant go to church, school and home and an old dirty man waiting going nowhere, doing nothing, thats what they do at their age, boring; you have to go out with girlfriends. Of course people will look and wont ask the pair of you out around their kids and families. What are you getting out of a shrivelled up male plum, while you remain a ripened peach. Is he wealthy? You need some type of compensation for your youth; social learnings going down the drain. If he has no provision of funds to give you, he’s a taker, sapping up the life of the young. I mean you have young handsome men, all types of guys. You cant go to church, school and home and an old dirty man waiting going nowhere, doing nothing, thats what they do at their age, boring; you have to go out with girlfriends. Of course people will look and wont ask the pair of you out around their kids and families.

]]> By: hollie http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-462 hollie Tue, 14 Jul 2009 11:10:45 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-462 i think its a bad idea start fresh i think its a bad idea start fresh

]]> By: nonnie http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-449 nonnie Sun, 12 Jul 2009 00:13:32 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-449 Ok first things first your a very bright young lady, I think that your family are shocked but things always soon die down, believe it or not I've had a similar situation, I fell in love with someone that was just far to old for me, but I followed my heart as I always promised myself I would, everyone pointed and stared or made untrue comments, people talk and things can become much bigger than wanted, that was the darkest time of my life I look back at how stupid I was how could I have thought I was so inlove, the only bright bit of the whole situation is that I can help you. I suggest following your family as I wish I had, your young like it or not and young people do silly things and are forgiven for then quickly, its called living and learning, what I did was out of love even yet I regret it, you don't know if you love him after all this then maybe its time to be the adult your so close to being and put your hands up and say I was wrong I learnt,keep us posted and good luck Ok first things first your a very bright young lady, I think that your family are shocked but things always soon die down, believe it or not I’ve had a similar situation, I fell in love with someone that was just far to old for me, but I followed my heart as I always promised myself I would, everyone pointed and stared or made untrue comments, people talk and things can become much bigger than wanted, that was the darkest time of my life I look back at how stupid I was how could I have thought I was so inlove, the only bright bit of the whole situation is that I can help you. I suggest following your family as I wish I had, your young like it or not and young people do silly things and are forgiven for then quickly, its called living and learning, what I did was out of love even yet I regret it, you don’t know if you love him after all this then maybe its time to be the adult your so close to being and put your hands up and say I was wrong I learnt,keep us posted and good luck

]]> By: stephi http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-436 stephi Thu, 09 Jul 2009 03:24:24 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-436 I may no nothing about having a boyfriend or dating but I know right from wrong. It is perfectly fine to like someone 3x's your age... But ask yourself why you like him first. It is NOT ALRIGHT to HIDE ANY relasonship from your parents no matter what. in terms of my opinion it would be better for yourself if you stop with this guy and focus on your life with your family you have your whole life ahead of you. Show not only your family but your sister as well that even though people make mistakes they can fix them. Hope this helps. I may no nothing about having a boyfriend or dating but I know right from wrong.

It is perfectly fine to like someone 3x’s your age…
But ask yourself why you like him first.

It is NOT ALRIGHT to HIDE ANY relasonship from your parents no matter what.

in terms of my opinion it would be better for yourself if you stop with this guy and focus on your life with your family you have your whole life ahead of you.

Show not only your family but your sister as well that even though people make mistakes they can fix them. Hope this helps.

]]> By: carley http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-426 carley Tue, 07 Jul 2009 12:31:47 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-426 i dont think there is much of a problem about the age differance but you want to watch out with a older person i was with sombody older and sadly it dident work out because i wanted smbody my age x ano this dosent realli give you any advice but i just wanted to have my say x i dont think there is much of a problem about the age differance but you want to watch out with a older person i was with sombody older and sadly it dident work out because i wanted smbody my age x ano this dosent realli give you any advice but i just wanted to have my say x

]]> By: lemongirl http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-414 lemongirl Fri, 03 Jul 2009 11:29:28 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-414 You do sound like a mature young woman, and I really wish we could get a better sense of this man from your post - but in my opinion, there is something odd about a man presumably in his late 40's wanting to be in a romantic relationship with a teenager. I know at 17 you feel like you have lived a lot and seen a lot and are as mature as any adult - I sure did! But in terms of sheer life experience, you are in such a different world as this man. You've probably noticed already that people think he is "taking advantage of you" even if you haven't been sexually active yet, and there is a reason for this. It is simply not normal for a man of that age to want a teenager as his partner. Lust and fantasies are one thing - but he is middle aged. Your life is just begining! If you do decide that you want to be together regardless, how do you see your future relationship with your family? Will this put a strain on it? Is he worth giving up the trust and close relationship you have with your sister and parents? You are 17 - this is not your only chance at love! If you do decide to end it, I promise you, there will be other men who will love you and who you will love, and may make your life a whole lot easier! Good luck, whatever you decide. You do sound like a mature young woman, and I really wish we could get a better sense of this man from your post – but in my opinion, there is something odd about a man presumably in his late 40’s wanting to be in a romantic relationship with a teenager. I know at 17 you feel like you have lived a lot and seen a lot and are as mature as any adult – I sure did! But in terms of sheer life experience, you are in such a different world as this man. You’ve probably noticed already that people think he is “taking advantage of you” even if you haven’t been sexually active yet, and there is a reason for this. It is simply not normal for a man of that age to want a teenager as his partner. Lust and fantasies are one thing – but he is middle aged. Your life is just begining!
If you do decide that you want to be together regardless, how do you see your future relationship with your family? Will this put a strain on it? Is he worth giving up the trust and close relationship you have with your sister and parents?
You are 17 – this is not your only chance at love! If you do decide to end it, I promise you, there will be other men who will love you and who you will love, and may make your life a whole lot easier! Good luck, whatever you decide.

]]> By: micheal jackson...r.i.p http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-392 micheal jackson...r.i.p Tue, 30 Jun 2009 08:53:49 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-392 you should get with some one your own age like me forget them older men thats rong and you are only 17 get a grip ov your self safe you should get with some one your own age like me forget them older men thats rong and you are only 17 get a grip ov your self safe

]]> By: Anna and Adam http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-374 Anna and Adam Mon, 22 Jun 2009 10:01:35 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-374 Have you actually had intercourse or sexual actions with this man? if you haven't then you are atleast not stupid, if you have and your family have found out about this then the man you care about so much could be sentenced to prison for commiting padeophilia. I suggest that you take a few moments and think to yourself whether this is actually what you want, or your simply trying to bring some excitement via rebellion into your normal and previously peaceful family life. Have you ever had a boyfriend beforehand? If you have, then compare. If you haven't, we suggest you take a break from this hectic situation and experiment with people your own age. If it turns out you like the older men, then atleast wait a few years so it's legal for you and your partners. What will happen when he is in old age, and your only 40-ish? Do you really want to be a middle-aged woman caring for oap's? Do you really want to spend half your life alone when he has sadly passed away? you should consider these points, and good luck. Have you actually had intercourse or sexual actions with this man? if you haven’t then you are atleast not stupid, if you have and your family have found out about this then the man you care about so much could be sentenced to prison for commiting padeophilia. I suggest that you take a few moments and think to yourself whether this is actually what you want, or your simply trying to bring some excitement via rebellion into your normal and previously peaceful family life.

Have you ever had a boyfriend beforehand? If you have, then compare. If you haven’t, we suggest you take a break from this hectic situation and experiment with people your own age. If it turns out you like the older men, then atleast wait a few years so it’s legal for you and your partners.

What will happen when he is in old age, and your only 40-ish? Do you really want to be a middle-aged woman caring for oap’s? Do you really want to spend half your life alone when he has sadly passed away?

you should consider these points, and good luck.

]]> By: roxy http://myagonyaunt.com/he-is-3-times-my-age/comment-page-1/#comment-369 roxy Wed, 17 Jun 2009 20:54:30 +0000 http://myagonyaunt.com/?p=24#comment-369 you must furst work out if you really do love this man and if he loves u. u must c if u can trust him. if u can and u do love him i surgest invitting him round and sitting doun with all your family about how u feel. not just about him but also about them and the way they handeled the situation. good luck. you must furst work out if you really do love this man and if he loves u. u must c if u can trust him. if u can and u do love him i surgest invitting him round and sitting doun with all your family about how u feel. not just about him but also about them and the way they handeled the situation. good luck.

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