Comments on: He left his partner of 14 years with 2 young kids

By: nadia

nadia — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 19:02:33 +0000

i think your really out of order the man has 2 young kids for god sake and youv’e been dumb enough to stay with him while he has been in a relationship with his babymama. In most instances girls who do a woman wrong end up getting done wrong themselves hence your pitiful situation

By: Adie

Adie — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 13:27:58 +0000

I totaly agree with the advice you have been given that you are better off on your own.Why would you want to be in a relationship with a guy you bareley see anyway?Time to move on and maybe youl meet somone with less complications in their life that can make you far happier than he apparently has anyway.

By: cas

cas — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 01:04:27 +0000

You’re both as bad as each other. You helped break a relationship that envolved 2 children and were happy to be his bit on the side. You let him use you and now he seems uninterested.

He’s been messing you and his partner around for 3 years, why would you want him? What makes you think he wont do the same to you if you two were together, what’s to stop him having another afair.

You need to realise that he’s not good for you, you can do alot better then someone willing to cheat for 3 years and tear apart his family. Be single and enjoy it, find someone you can be with and not feel bad about – and more importantly someone who lets you know you’re their priority.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 10:30:19 +0000

I hope my advice helped you. I’m an agony aunt and my website is
anonymousletters.net
Go to my site and contact me through the contact me page if you need me.

Look up EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) on Google or under EFT section on siouxhealer.co.uk This is a great method for building confidence to open you to meeting new people if this doesn’t work. Try it as it’s really effective& will help you make good decisions.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 10:11:55 +0000

If he was involved with another woman AND had 2 kids with her when he met you, and he never bothered ending the first relationship before he started one with you, then yes you were BOTH in the wrong- YOU AND HE. Even if you knew about the other woman, you helped him cheat on her. How would YOU have felt being in her shoes?! The fact you’ve been with him 3 yrs only makes it worse rather than better.

He’s obviously not been truthful with you and is playing you both if he’s just ignoring you. No, it’s not normal to ignore someone after
3 yrs together.

You may feel my words are harsh but, honestly, I think you need to sit and think about why your self confidence is so low that you would bother to get involved with someone else’s partner? Don’t you think you deserve better? Like someone who’s available and who hasn’t walked out on two kids without telling them?

If you want the truth- hard as it is- and it’s better than living a lie, it’s time for you to forget him and move on.