Comments on: He has a girlfriend but I really Like him

By: Rosie

Rosie — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 21:54:43 +0000

Stop seeing him for a while and see how it goes. At the end of the day, he has a girlfriend who he has not broken up with for you, which he could have done at any time. If he really is trying to spare her feelings he should be looking for the right time to end it with her all the time, and therefore it should happen soon.
However, be aware that he might just be trying to have his cake and eat it too – things with his girlfriend may not be as bad as he makes out, and he may have no intention of breaking up with her at all.

By: Lulu

Lulu — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 13:51:39 +0000

Look, ask far as im concerned, if he’s prepared to cheat on his current girlfriend for you hes the wrong choice all together. If he’s cheat once WITH you whos to say he wouldnt cheat ON you. Stear clear of him and do whats right. If the girl he’s with does get dumped it’ll be for the right reasons. Not because he’d been cheating on her. Trust me, ending a happy relationship because you want him won’t end in a happily ever after.

By: Yvette

Yvette — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 17:42:43 +0000

awhh im in a situation like that, except its my ex, and i broke up with him like a year ago, and only last october i told him i wanted him back, even though he has a girl friend, and he kept saying he loves her. he and i almost got back together last june, but i didnt want to get to tied down but now i regret all of those decisions as he was the best thing that ever happened to me, and trust me im trying to move on, but if he ever does tell me he wants me back, then i think i would take him back, keep fighting for him, if you really want him, hes worth it, xxx

By: babbiie

babbiie — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 19:14:16 +0000

HE IS NOT 2 BE TRUSTED!
well that’s what I think anyways he is going behind he’s girlfriend back.
Imagine if you two where together you would’nt want him to be cheating on you with some one else.
If he can cheat once then he could cheat again, again, so I personnally don’t think it is worth it. All tha trouble and when you do become offically boyfriends/girlfriends what happens in the end when you two brake apart. Are willing to risk the good friendship you have right now?

By: anonymous

anonymous — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 16:24:34 +0000

Im in the same problem as you but its ma friend whos goin out wid him nd i asked help from my friends nd they sed i should just tell her how i feel about him nd say that i would never go behind her back with him or flirt with him coz i could never do that to her nd that i had to tell her.

By: Mary

Mary — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 18:16:40 +0000

If its ment to happen its ment to happen, you have to think before you act but; you cant “steal” this guy away think how his girlfriend would feel. However make friends with this guy and then if its ment to happen he might see that your the one for him. Please just please do not through yourself at him or do anything to jeprodise the relationship between him and his girlfriend. The Question in your head after reading this might be “what if his girlfriend doesnt like him that much?” well then she should end it, its upto her to do that not you sorry babe ! xx

By: Emily

Emily — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 21:41:03 +0000

tell him you will cut off all contact untill he is broken up with his girlfriend if he realy likes you he will but if you keep flirting and kissing it is just cheating

By: leigh

leigh — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 09:00:06 +0000

Tell him you want more than a friendship and you understand he does too but things are way too complicated right now with him having, and isnt he lucky, two women. Stop seeing him and wait for him to leave her and come back to you. Because you believe he is genuine and he say he is and fair enough the other isnt working for him.

By: Alex

Alex — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 17:23:11 +0000

I understand that this situation mustn’t be easy for you but I think you shouldn’t tell him how you feel for many reasons. First of all, if you do, he’s gonna take advantage of you two without taking a real decision. That is to say, he’s gonna cheat on his girlfriend but he’s never gonna leave her and you gonna be in a waiting position, hoping a real relationship with him whereas it’s never gonna happen! Then, imagine how you would feel if you were in his girlfriend situation? This is not cool for her ! Moreover, flirting with you clearly shows that he doesn’t have any respect for his girlfriend and if he ‘s doing that now, nothing will prevent him to do the same thing with you in your possible future relationship!
I hope that my advices will help you, and you will do the right thing!

By: Sazzle

Sazzle — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 21:58:07 +0000

You should stay friends. How would you feel if you were in his girlfriends shoes? It just shows that hes not trust worthy in a relationship to kiss you behind his girlfriends back.