He has a baby with another women
I need to write if it doesnt go through i wont care just need to get it out of my head. I met the guy four days ago, i invited him to come sit in the shade with me n my little girl, ( kids go to daycare together,)no intentions where made on either part. he agreed , we introduced ourselves, and had a great relaxing day at the beach, second day samething at the beach, we talk more and went canoeing around the lake.
Next day he had the day off , he lives close i happen to be on the road and he drives up. says hi, i wasnt honset with you, i have a gf we have a baby together, i dont know if shes mine or not, i have a feeling thats shes not. right from the get go he thought it was his friends. and resembles him, then he said theres 10 yrs diff and shes french , hard to understand. I thought ok he has a gf ,im ok with that lets just be freinds.our kids get along so well..then he says hed like to come hang out for the after noon, (gf in quebec with baby grl for a few weeks).
Isaid sure he brought over some coronas and a dube. we smoked and had a few drinks. we laid up on my roof, we talked and talked and have so mch in comon. He kept giving me compliments, and said he wishes he wasnt in a relationship. I was just frustrated, with the whole thing. cause i like him also but im 9 yr older and just know better.. i know how the gf feels ,just having a baby and probably not sexual, and young still.. me im in my prime and very sexual..
I could easily take this man and make mad love to him , but i cannot ,as i have respect for his gf and there bb.. NOw hes got me picking up and dropping off his son at daycare cause the gf doesnt drive, shee would have to bundle up baby adn take a cab to get him there, wont just keep him home with her????? i dont really get that part..but he says shes a new mom and is not comfortable with little buddy there..hes adorable ,, so dad drops him off at 630 am, in my bed.
little buddy cuddles with me as we slowly wake, I have unbeleiveable fantasies with him and its going to to be so hard seeing him in the mornings, as im very sexual in the morning exspecially. I get up walk him to the door in my low cut sexy nighty. i could feel him staring at me,wanting me, i said GO get out of here, lord lead me not into temptation… he laughs and leaves..i see wild sexual affair. but refuse to share, ill have to back out, cause its just not fair……….im cheating myself.. but like him too much..my heart on my sleeve, but as much as i want to seduce him, i cant guilt will engulf me.. thanks for letting me write i have to get these guys to daycare..losrd give me strength in this……..his gf will be back in a week.his or not, she is still living with him.
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Seems your haveing a laspe in judgement and its hurting you.
Your kids are friends but he has a girlfriend. His girlfriend is obviously someone he cares about otherwise he wouldnt be with her but he also feels confused about likign you which is why he spends so much time with you.
Back off it my advice.
Let him come to you if its meant to be
Hi there, this is an interesting situation. On the second meeting (day two) when the same thing happened, what were your intentions/thoughts? I ask because if this was initially a one-off on day one and you saw the guy again the following day i can only think different thoughts and feelings must have crossed your mind that were not there on day one.
From the communication the guy is having with you it’s obviously that he wants to be more than your friend. Lets recap for a minute. You’ve only seen the guy twice and on the third occasion he’s informing you that he has a child and is unsure whether it’s his or not. Guys do not just divulge information like this if they don’t have an interest in you. Did you ask him any questions when you spoke about his personal life? It seems you have more information than you asked for. In addition, if what I previously said is true about him liking you and wanting to pursue you then he will tell you even more information than you ask for if only given time.
Your mind knows the right thing to do and it is communicating with you body all the time. Don’t go there! As close as you are at the moment things will get even more intense if you open the door to it. You have the control here. You have been given information to make an informed decision and your brain is telling you what you should do for you to remain in control. The moment you are lead by your feelings you will feel vulnerable and something will happen that you will eventually feel guilty about.
You really have got a bit too close to this guy for him to have you fulfilling his sons daycare duties. Its all got too intimate – dropping the lil one at your place in your bed. Who knows if he isn’t feeding you excuses about why his girlfriend cannot take the child to daycare just so he can see you in your nightie?
By the time you get this message the girlfriend will be back. Hope you didn’t end up sleeping with him or doing anything you now regret.
At the end of your story, it sounds like you want a relationship with the kid.
Seek help.
As for the rest of your story, don’t delude yourself – you’re a grown woman for god’s sake, a grown woman with a child. Regardless of what this man says about his girlfriend’s baby, that’s his place. And if he’s so concerned that it isn’t his, it doesn’t take much to get a DNA test. If the kid is his, then he should stay with it and its mother. If it’s not, it’d be pretty unfair of him to abandon them both – he has to sort those issues out with his girlfriend.
Besides, if you claim you’re so much older and know better – what the hell are you doing bitching to Agony Aunt? If you really knew better, you’d know to leave it alone.