He Flirts With Me
Dear Agony Aunt,
I’m 25 and it has been a very long time since I’ve dated a guy. I’ve just began a new course at college and I have become very close friends with a guy the same age as myself. He often flirts with me but I’m confused as I feel I’m getting mixed messages from him.
My feelings for him are quite strong but I’m too afraid to tell him how I feel because I fear rejection and I fear I will lose my beautiful friendship with him. I don’t want to pass on this opportunity because I don’t want to end up thinking ‘what if’ there could have been something. I can’ stop this constant feeling of hurt in my heart. In the pass a similar situation occurred with another guy and I never had the courage to tell him how I felt and I felt hurt for quite a while. But now I don’t want to repeat this again. I need advice.
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The best way to know his character and how he truly feels is through friendship; through getting to know him the old-fashioned way. Keep talking with him and going out with him till you REALLY get to know him.
You don’t have to tell him directly how you feel about him (he may not be ready to hear it) but you should ask him out before someone else does. There’s nothing wrong with a casual invitation to lunch/ coffee/ the cinema, etc. Even long walks& jogging is good if you’re into exercise.
Give it time but make sure you date him before he starts dating someone else. Get to know his personality, interests, values. Don’t go for physical intimacy which will only cloud the issue. Go for real emotional intimacy and connection.
Once you REALLY know him, only then can you decide whether he’s the one for you and when you want to tell him that and see if it’s mutual.
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i have been in the same situation so mybe you clould look out for messages and his body language. how about asking 1 of your really close friends to ask him if he likes you
i hope my advice works