He doesnt want to know me
I have a boyfriend and I have been with him for 7months now, at the start of the relationship he seemed really keen about it, but now it seems as though he doesn’t want to know me, and I feel like his love for me is slipping.
I have tried to let him know on how I feel but every time I do it just leads to us arguing. I really do love him and I really don’t know what I would do without him. He used to make more of an effort but now its been 3weeks and I haven’t seen him once, we have talked over facebook but it seems as though he would prefer talk to other girls.
When I ring him up he always has an excuse to either having to go or a reason that he has to talk to one of my friends instead of me. Sometimes he makes me feel really awful and hurts my feelings a lot, but then he is all sweet and every time I can’t help falling for him once again, and before I realise what mistake I made he turns on me again. He has made me cry a lot recently and I have found out he can give but not take. He has often pretended to like other girls and has pretended to dump me leaving me in tears.
I feel like I forgive him to easy but I find it impossible to be angry with him…please help me out!
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i think you should leave him you shouldnt make someone a priority if they only see you as a option remember that!
Look best thing to do is give the guy a break make time for your friends and family, and if he really wants to be with you he will be the one chasing you. If not just walk away from this relationship im most definately sure theres someone even better for you out there that will respect and treat you right.
I completely understand the struggle that you are in, it seems you know that he is bad for you and yet you can’t give him up. However, you need too! He most certainly does not deserve you, as you appear to care so much more about him then he does about you. You need to explain to him that he simply isn’t treating you right and then really try and distance yourself. Delete his number, his friendship off of facebook or twitter or any other social networking sites! If you happen to be at the same party or something just stick with your friends and don’t get drawn into him! He seems to be ignoring you and enjoying the attention that he gets, so just cut him off now!
He is not going off you, have you ever thought that maybe he needs some time to himself? it does’nt mean hes loosing interest. Give it time and he will come round, if he loves you he will come back trust me.
x
I’ve just gone through the same sort of thing with my boyfriend and we ended up breaking up because he realised he didn’t have the time to commit to being in a relationship. It hurts when you love someone and they don’t seem to show you that they love you back but going your separate ways is probably the best thing for you both to do. There’s always the option of staying friends after. If you love him, and it’s quite clear that you do, then let him go. A friend once said to me :
There is one guy. Out there. Just for you. And one day you’ll meet him. But you’ll mist likely go through heart break. And depression. Confusion and hating love. But one day when you find the one. It’ll be worth all the heart breaks and sleepless nights. You love this guy at the minute but he might not necessarily be your “one”
Im going through a similar experience at the moment, im nearly 40 and he is only 26, we met though an internet site and as my marriage is not going too well at the momet thought id meet this fella, we had a really good day together he made me realise what i hadnt been getting from my husband, i dveloped strong feelings for him and he for me , we text all day every day then he wanted me to leave my husband and because it was a big step i asked time and time again if he was serious to which he said he was , i told hubby id met someone else , things were goig really well untill a few days after valentines day whe the bloke said he needed a break we never spoke for over 3 weeks , he then got back i touch ad we started seeing each other again things have been really good up till afew weeks ago whe he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me ad my boys, he doest want to know again now and said he wants a break for a few weeks , it hurst like hell but i cant let him go
I think that, even though you obviously love him, you should speak to him. Let him know how you feel and tell him you’re contemplating breaking up with him because it’s too difficult to be with him, which you should do. Hopefully he should understand and pull himself together but if not then you should probably either take a break or break it off for good..