I have been in my office job for a little over a year now. About 8 months ago I started to develop feelings for my Manager. I tried to ignore my feelings though as he is not only my Manager,  he is also married. For the past couple of months my feelings for him have been growing stronger, and I have been struggling to keep quiet.

A few weeks ago our team went out for drinks after work, and my Manager admitted that he has feelings for me too! He said ‘it’s you, it’s always been you’. We ended up kissing and over text he told me he really liked me and couldn’t stop thinking about me. We decided to forget it though as he has also got a 1 year old daughter.

I can’t just forget it though and don’t know what to do. We have been flirting over text recently and he has started to email me a lot more than he should. I don’t want to leave my job as I love it, but feel I can’t move on whilst still working there. I know this sounds selfish, but I want him to get divorced. Is it even possible that he still loves his wife? I either want to be with him, or just cut him out of my life, but don’t want to leave my job! It would be much appreciated if you can give any advice on this problem.