i’m 14 and have 3 bet freinds and wen i’m talking with them ,1 of my freinds
says really randon things. eg. my cousin got stabbed,my sister fell down the
stairs, my granny had a stroke, my other cousin won the lottory, i was stuck in
a lift with a woman in labour,my brother tried to kill himself with his school
tie and my dad had a tumour died in the operation, came back 2 life, and went
home the next day.
its really weird and always out of context. Me and my othr freinds think she’s lying, so we asked her brother. He had never herd about the lottory thing, bt she came then and told him to shut up and told us he was lying. today, 2 months after she sed it, she told us it was a joke.
So wot else has she been lying about? We keep on asking her and she just avoids the question but hangs around with us like normal. 1 of my freinds isnt talking 2
her and its really awkward. Im cought in the middle. I dont want 2 leave her
inacse she’s not lying and all these bad things did happen 2 her but i dont want
2 hang around with a lyer, shes really sad and i’m confused. nothings the same
anymore. I’m in all her classes and she still hangs around with us. she’s not
getting it and wont give us a clear answer.
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Im 14 years old. And im pregnant. Allow me to explain what happened.
It was mine and my boyfriend 6 month anniversary. He had decided to take
me out for dinner and a movie then a stroll through the park. I had told my mum i was seeing him but i had said that i was sleeping round at a friends house
when i was really staying at his …
I had a wonderful time and whilst strolling around the park wearing his jacket,
snuggled up in his arms, looking up at the beautiful starry night – i realised i
loved him. He beat me to saying it – he took my hands and told me he had never
felt this way about anyone ever before etc. then he said “i love you”. I was so
happy. I immediatley told him i loved him too and we kissed under the stars. We
stumbled, kissing madly as we went, back to his (his parents were out). We fell
on to his bed. We tore our clothes off each other leaving bras and underwear
lying all over his floor. We kissed and touched and then he stopped.
We got a condom from his sisters drawer and before you knew it … bye bye
virginity!
Three months later and i have missed three periods. He was there when i took a
pregnancy test and knows we’re having a baby but hes not worried. im terrified.
I think i want to have it but i dont know what to do. I dont know how to tell my
mum. Abortion is out of the question, adoption is also a no no! I think i want
to have it but i just dont know how to tell my mum.
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Our school is organising a prom for our year, and there is a girl who I would
particularly like to take as a date. She recently broke up with her old
boyfriend, but there seems to be someone else who has his eye on her 0 should I
rush in to ask her before he does, or should I wait and see how it plays out,
because the Prom is not for a while.
I don’t want to be turned down, because that would shatter my confidence, but I don’t want to leave it too late and miss an opportunity and have her thinking i’m not interested. Some advice would be great
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Hello I’m Joe, I’m 15 (though I consider myself quite mature) and am having a rollercoaster relationship with an ex-boyfriend that I don’t know what to do
about (I am openly gay). When we first got together we were really happy with each other and everything was going great until we eventually broke up, to both our upset. In regret, he asked me back out, and when I couldn’t answer, ended up kissing someone else within my sight.
We have a love/hate relationship and are constantly flirting yet trying to
make each other jealous. We have both been trying to make it work with other
people but don’t feel the same. He irritates me some times and has some form of
bi-polar so he has mood swings that can be testing. Despite the things that
irritate me about him, there is something about him that I don’t see in anyone
else. He can be upsetting and unpredictable, but other people I have tried it
with just seem.. boring.. in comparison. He lies to me sometimes but I suppose I
can do it too. He has treated me terribly in the past (I shan’t go into full
detail) but theres something about him I can’t let go. Sometimes, after all the
stuff he has put me through, it makes me happy to see him sad, but I suppose I
have a spiteful attitude and I’m not completely innocent myself.
Do people ever change? Maybe he is the missing piece to my puzzle… Someone
to love, hate, and be able to show all my true colours to. I am very confused
about what to do and it seems to power of whether we get back together or not is
in my hands. And, if you reply, please don’t patronize me because of my age,
because if I was just a raging-hormones teenager, I’d be getting intimate with
the next attractice lad that came along right now.
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the other day i snogged this boy loads of times, but he has a girlfriend, i
really like this boy and i thought he liked me cos of what happened but i’m not
to sure anymore.
he told his mate that i’m a really good kisser though, but i don’t know what to do?
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Okay. So my very best friend was dating one of my other really good friends for
about four months. But the relationship went downhill after month two, and they never kissed or anything. She broke up with him two weeks ago. So during the last three weeks of their relationship, he started spending alot more time with me, and being really sweet and nice.
We’re pretty much best friends now. And I started to like him. But another one of my really good friends told me that she liked him, and that she was going to ask him out.
My other friends are helping her out and telling him her good qualities and stuff. She asked him out, and he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship. So she’s going to ask again in two weeks. And my best friend was really happy that someone liked him, despite him being her ex. She’s even helping her. My problem is that i also like him. What do i do?
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I’m 19 years old, and recently found myself having bad trust issues, it’s
mostly towards men.
I had men walk all over me over the last few years, the thing that hurt me most was something that happened nearly a year ago, i was on a night out with my friends when i was told that they’d caught my boyfriend of 6 months cheating on me, i was devastated and went to find someone to confide in, at the time that was a guy that to me was like a brother, my best friend.
I cryed and told him what happened, he hugged me and told me it’d be alright, but next thing i know his trying to touch me. I said no, but he said nothing, the more he tried the more i pushed away but he still wouldn’t stop, i looked him directly in the eyes and said no but he didnt look like my friend anymore, he held my arm down still saying nothing, i couldn’t understand why he was doing this to me.
After about what seemed like forever I passed out, not sure why, whether it was my nerves, or the amount i had to drink, i don’t think he raped me but in the morning my jeans were undone and halfway down my thigh.
That morning i wanted to die, but he acted as if nothing had happened, taking to me like he normally would. Him acting this way threw me and i said nothing. I didn’t know how to act, he still talks to me now and i still havn’t told him how much he hurt me, it makes me feel guilty and horrid.
I kept it bottled up, pretending i didn’t care, and not talking to anyone about
what i was feeling, i eventully pushed it so far to the back of my mind it
seemed unreal, but now it’s exploded and i’m pushing away everyone close to me.
Relationships with guys seems impossible, i can’t stand them touching me and as soon as a male friend crosses the line slightly i start throwing barriers up.
I also have started to find myself been attracted to girls, i’m not sure if
this is because the way i was treated or genuinly how i am feeling.
i’m so confused please help?
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heya, im 13, 14 this year, im confused in waht to do. there’s this boy im quite
close to, and he wants me to do some stuff with him.
But he said to me that he isnt sure that there’ll be any feelings involved and now im not sure what to do.
I want to do it, but i just dont want to be used. Loads of boys keep messign em
around and im really confused and angry.
i just want someone to lvoe me fore who i am. The only boy i really like ahs moved away and i still like him. What do i
do? please help me 
x
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I’m basically having a serious crisis & I’m getting really close to doing
something stupid. I’m 17 & I suffer from an eating disorder, & have been
overweight for almost my entire life. I recently entered a relationship, but
with a friends ex boyfriend which caused me & her to fall out for good, leading to a really uncomfortable environment at work for me, as she’s turned everyone against me.
My Dad had a brain hemorrhage in March this year, and as the main
provider in our household, has caused conflict at home concerning, bills, chores & emotional problems. I don’t get on with my Dad, never have & only visit the hospital when I feel I have to.
I feel extremely guilty for not really caring,
but I just don’t feel a connection. I’m coming very closely to the end of
Sixth Form, and I’m struggling with revision & turning up to lessons is not
happening often at all. I’m constantly arguing with my mum about things, and because we’re both so stressed it doesn’t end well. I recently stopped
learning to drive as I wasn’t comfortable with my driving instructor, but
really want to carry on maybe with someone else, but money’s tight, & I’m a
panicky driver.
My partner lives 20 minutes drive away, and works full time & so
we don’t see each other as much as I’d like, but when he doesn’t come
over, I feel depressed & get angry at him, which is not fair. I’m always angry
& when he doesn’t text back straight away I say things to hurt him, but also
get so low that I cut myself, or binge eat. I can’t cope with all of these
things, I really can’t.
Since I have virtually no contact with any of my friends anymore & don’t speak to my family, sometimes I have no verbal contact
with people for days & it’s driving me insane. I have self esteem problems as
I hate my body as I’m overweight, and have sun damage to my facial skin. I
don’t know what to do, there’s a million & one other problems I feel I’m
facing, and I feel like I’m completely alone. Please help me, I’m too scared
to visit my Doctor again, as she doesn’t take me seriously & I’m too shy to
speak to a therapist. Please.
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