Comments on: I want to date my best friends ex

By: airam

airam — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 20:10:06 +0000

and if you really are uncomfortable talking to people in this situation, but can’t forget about him, i would advise you to try talking to the other person that likes this guy, see if they feel the same way as you about him.

… that is if you think they wont be mad, which is how a true friend should be – happy for you, that is – and if they do feel the same way, maybe you should be the better person and let them have him… you never know, he might only have eyes for you…

… then again, I’m probably not the best person to ask about this since the guy i like, I’m to embarrassed to ask out because he’s ‘popular’ and I’m not. One day I’ll have the courage to ask him out…

By: sophie

sophie — Mon, 31 May 2010 22:38:06 +0000

i wwas in the same situation. you have to remember that this guy is also your friend and if you break up then you probobaly wont be as close anymore. you should tell his ex and if she says yes then you should go for it but if she says no then shes obviously not a very good friend

By: santas little helper

santas little helper — Thu, 06 May 2010 10:06:05 +0000

i have had the same situation but my advice is this you should be brave and keep on going and be happy for her/him

By: michaela

michaela — Tue, 04 May 2010 10:59:24 +0000

hiya babe i have been in your shoes and the same thing has happend to me before what i did was told my best friend that i liked her ex boyfriend and she said well cause im not with him i dont care what you do so i thought should i actually put my friend through this and if i was going to be doing stuff infront of her i would feel pretty bad ? so do what your heart says
let me now how is goes babe xx

By: Becca

Becca — Thu, 29 Apr 2010 17:21:10 +0000

I am in the same situation…… I’m not sure what to do because gawd he’s worth it and me friend who likes him too is prettier and better to be around than me.. None of the advice really helps me because they all either say talk to people or forget him. I am not forgetting him one teeny weeny bit. And I don’t know how to talk to people in arquard situations like that. So I know its probly the wrong thing to do but I am planning to wait until he askes me which might be never.. BUUUUUUT he keeps giving me this look which makes me feel speshal until I stare back and then he looks away quickly.. So if I don’t get any good advice (no offence all you up there before me) then I will be a misserable toad for the rest of my school life.. great huhh? thanks for people trying and stuff….. And if anyone has a good idea PLEEESE can you click the reply button?? xx

By: claire

claire — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 15:06:02 +0000

hia darling.. i have been in your shoes before and they didnt fit very well…. you need to think of the outcome of what might happen if you do start seeing this lad… is he worth all the trouble and hassel you might get of your friend? its entierly up to you hun but you realy do need to have a long think befroe you make any desisions
x

By: Elle

Elle — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 21:39:23 +0000

This question totally relates to me, as I was in the same situation a while ago. I started dating my best mates ex a month after they broke up. He used to be my best mate too, and I started to fall for him. I checked with her that it was alright first, and decided to date him. After a while I really started to regret it, as I could tell that my best mate was really not happy about it. Even though she gave me her full consent, she still wasnt over him, she was just trying to be a good mate. About 2 months after we got together, we broke up. This way, I lost him as a best mate, and nearly lost my girl best mate too. Just think, you could end up in the same situation as me, and lose both friends. If you are really set on dating this guy, then make sure that it is COMPLETELY okay with your girl best mate, and see where it goes from there. But remember, mates before guys.

By: babbiie

babbiie — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 18:58:42 +0000

PATIENTS IS DA BEST POLICEY LOL ACTUALLY telling the truth is truue fwends stick wit u n boy friends cum n go so i won’t risk my friend ship over i a guy i eally lyke so jus be patient n c watz happenz becuaes there plenty of fishes in the sea but if u think he is the one 4 u then y nt risk it bt make sure u tell ur friends as then when dey find out they won’t trust u anymoe
jus be patients dat all im sayin good things happen wen poeple are patient

By: simone lancefield

simone lancefield — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 09:28:01 +0000

its not worth wrecking your relationship with your friend if shes still not over it. i guess if your friends fine with it , do what makes you happy , but if you were there from the start, why did he choose your friend not you ? why is it now there over he wants to come to you.

By: Emily

Emily — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 20:58:06 +0000

just stay friends if you ask this guy out you will lose two friends and make things awkward with the boy wait until both you friends are completely over him. remember friends over guys always