I want to date my best friends ex
Okay. So my very best friend was dating one of my other really good friends for
about four months. But the relationship went downhill after month two, and they never kissed or anything. She broke up with him two weeks ago. So during the last three weeks of their relationship, he started spending alot more time with me, and being really sweet and nice.
We’re pretty much best friends now. And I started to like him. But another one of my really good friends told me that she liked him, and that she was going to ask him out.
My other friends are helping her out and telling him her good qualities and stuff. She asked him out, and he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship. So she’s going to ask again in two weeks. And my best friend was really happy that someone liked him, despite him being her ex. She’s even helping her. My problem is that i also like him. What do i do?
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I think you should speak to the girl who was dating this boy first. Explain your feelings to her then ask her opinion on what to do as she knows both you, the boy and this other girl pretty well. Then i think you should talk to the other girl tell her about your feelings also, and tell her if she has a problem with you asking this boy out, you wont. Friendship is important,and i do think you should try get your friends blessing. Hopefully she will understand, Good luck:)
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you need to decide if he is worth going for. and if he is thn you need to get in there first and tell him how you feel. The chances are he will like you too
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I know exactly how you feel, I’m in love with my friends ex, and what makes it worse is he dumped her and she is still like totally in love with him. I know you don’t want to hurt your friend, but if you really love this guy, then you have to tell him. You can’t keep it bottled inside, it will eat away at you and you will always wonder, what if?
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Truthfully, I wouldn’t. If his ex is ur mate, haven’t u thought about her feelings. I was in exactly the same problem as u. I chose to go with the lad. Cuz he hung out with me after he split up with her. He was nice n sweet to me so I thought, why not. 3 days later, I got attacked with a high heel while I was asleep by one of his exes mates. I called the police but they didn’t do anything about it. They just said to go to the police station 2 days later. The lad gave a a statement too. But when I went to the police station, he had withdrawn his statement and told the police to tell me that it was over and that he was back with his ex. Now, I have had to move away because of her n her mates going round my house, shouting abuse in my street. They txt me, ring me. They even email me on facebook!! Just be very careful what u choose bab, u don’t wanna get hurt like I did x x
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Do u think he is worth going out with? If you think you and your friend are going to fall out over him you should seriously consider checking if this boy is worth wrecking your friendship.
If he likes you back you should talk to your friend about this situation.
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if u like this boy and you think he likes you too then you should talk to your friend about this situation….but if u think you and your friend could fall out then you should think about it and see if he is worth it..
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just stay friends if you ask this guy out you will lose two friends and make things awkward with the boy wait until both you friends are completely over him. remember friends over guys always
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